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Take control of your dating life, with the help of the world’s top coaches!

Imagine spending an entire weekend with the world's top dating coaches learning exactly what you need to do to attract the most beautiful women in ANY situation.

Each bootcamp starts off with a classroom-style seminar in which you learn our powerful techniques for becoming the man who can attract women with ease. The advice is tailored to your personal style and preference, whether you want to be the life of the party, or the strong silent type. Next, our instructors will take you out to the most popular venues to demonstrate how everything works right in front of your eyes and then help you practice what you’ve just learned. While you’re out, instructors provide hands-on coaching to further refine your abilities, and make sure you get an experience that will forever change you.

Whatever your abilities are now, a weekend bootcamp will bring your skills to a WHOLE NEW LEVEL. This isn’t just about attracting women, this is about becoming the man that you’ve always known you could be, and living the life YOU want.   

Over the course of the weekend you’ll learn:

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    How To Get In The Right State Of Mind For Dating

    September 19, 2018

    How To Get In The Right State Of Mind For Dating

    Learning how to get in the right state of mind for dating takes practice and lots of it.  Beyond practice, here are some tips to help:

    1. Warm Up! Figure out what triggers an enthusiastic emotional state in you, and use it. For me, it's certain songs that I make sure I have in my car on the way to the club. When I get out of the car, I'm ready to go.

    10 Secrets to a Successful Approach

    September 17, 2018

    10 Secrets to a Successful Approach

    You see an attractive woman.  You don't know her.  You have no "excuse" to talk to her.  Can you walk up to her and start a conversation - the kind of conversation that's going to lead to attraction and more?

    This is a skill any man can master.  And one no man can afford to ignore - If you can't comfortably talk to strangers, you've excluded 99.9% of the women whose path you're going to cross in life.

    Setting Expectations When She Wants More (Q&A)

    September 06, 2018

    I was talking on The Lounge the other day with Randall, a Love Systems bootcamp graduate. He's doing great now, and it reminded me of a Q&A I did in the Love Systems' insider (LSi) a little while ago. He said it helped him a lot, so I'm taking a fresh look at it here.
    Why (Most) Women Give Bad Dating Advice

    September 06, 2018

    It just doesn’t make sense. Common sense would say that women should be able to give good advice on getting beautiful women interested in you.

    But they don’t.

    (OK, I’m sure some do. Love Systems Bootcamps occasionally use female instructors or assistants, but...

    10 Steps to Getting a Hot Girl's REAL Phone Number (and she'll answer when you call)

    September 06, 2018

    You spend an hour getting ready to go out. Maybe two, counting travel time. Maybe you review your copy of the Magic Bullets Handbook before you leave. You probably approach a few different women before you find one you really like. You’re about another hour into talking to her when you ask for her phone number….
    Threesomes, Runway Models, and the power of frames (part II)

    August 31, 2018

    Please click here to read part I. This post won’t make any sense without it.


    I invited a bunch of my friends (ah, the joy of mass text messages) to a bustling outdoor bar/café that would have great social energy, drinks, and food. (i.e., no excuses to have to go somewhere else). I invited mostly girls, but also brought one of the students

    Threesomes, Runway Models, and the power of frames (part I)

    August 30, 2018

    Women have different rules for men who “get it” – men who have women in their life – than they do for men who don’t.

    In other words, men who understand women get to play by a different set of rules. My friend TD called this the “secret society” — but it’s not a secret if you know what to look for.

    The ridiculously awesome week

    August 30, 2018

    So the last week before Burning Man was ridiculous.

    It started with me going out with good friend Brad P. He was on a pseudo-date with a stripper girl but told me she was bringing a friend and they were all going to this dive bar. I like dive bars. So I hoped in a cab (car broken…again) got a drink, saw Brad, started to walk toward him and….