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Moving to a new city or rebuilding your social life in your current city can seem like a daunting task. Few things are tougher than the prospect of starting from ground zero. Moreover, depending on where you are, while your new city may be busy and seemingly bursting with opportunity, it might seem difficult to align yourself into the slipstream of the social flow.
The aims of this document are to aid you in your endeavor of building or re-building your social life from ground zero, while incorporating the principles from the Social Circle Mastery Home Study product. We will explore many of the initial steps you will take if you are moving to a new city or hitting the restart button in your current city.
When do you use an “indirect” opener? When do you “go direct”?
* Direct does not hide your interest in her. E.g., “Hi, you look interesting. My name is XXX.” (Nothing special about this opener; it’s just a quick example)
* Indirect is where you hide your interest in her at first. Instead, you start the conversation with a pretext. E.g. “Hey, we need you to settle an argument. Do drunk “I love you’s” count?
You enter the seduction phase after you and her have spent (usually) at least a few hours together, but not more than about 10.
Seduction is a pretty easy element in itself. It goes wrong for a lot of guys, but this is because of mistakes in comfort that only become apparent when you try to close the deal in seduction. It's like trying to tell a joke. You may feel that you can't deliver punch lines well, because you don't get the laughs. But the mistake may not be in the delivery of the punch line.