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Dating Advice

Direct vs Indirect

August 07, 2018

When do you use an “indirect” opener? When do you “go direct”?
* Direct does not hide your interest in her. E.g., “Hi, you look interesting. My name is XXX.” (Nothing special about this opener; it’s just a quick example)

* Indirect is where you hide your interest in her at first. Instead, you start the conversation with a pretext. E.g. “Hey, we need you to settle an argument. Do drunk “I love you’s” count?

Attract Beautiful Women Using Smartphone Game

August 07, 2018

Guys don't tend to talk about this stuff. Maybe once in a while your friend might tell you that your opening line was lame or that your clothes are out of style, but most men's lives are not full of messages and advice on how to succeed with women. There's no common male equivalent to women's magazines which are filled with articles like "How to get a guy!", "How to keep him!", and "How to rock his world!"

Date Ideas - Impress Your Girlfriend pt2

August 07, 2018

The previous Love Systems insider caused some controversy and a flurry of follow-up questions about dates, and I’ll get to the most common issues here. If I don’t get to your specific issue, I’m sorry – I can’t cover everything in the LSi – I make these newsletters really long and content-filled, despite regular (and well-meaning) emails from people who know internet marketing advising me to make them shorter, give away less content, and talk more about why people need our products. I try to stay true to our identity.

Troubleshooting the Comfort Phase

August 03, 2018

As most of you should know, the comfort phase is the 5th and most important phase of the 7-phase Emotional Progression Model (part of the Triad Model as explained in Magic Bullets). It is assumed that you've read and are up to speed with the concepts from Magic Bullets. We try to keep things as simple as we can, but if the science of being able to attract highly-desirable women consistently was easy, everyone would be doing it. It's a bit complicated, because human psychology is complicated. Here is a quick review of where comfort fits into the model...

Getting Started - Seduction

August 03, 2018

You enter the seduction phase after you and her have spent (usually) at least a few hours together, but not more than about 10.

Seduction is a pretty easy element in itself. It goes wrong for a lot of guys, but this is because of mistakes in comfort that only become apparent when you try to close the deal in seduction. It's like trying to tell a joke. You may feel that you can't deliver punch lines well, because you don't get the laughs. But the mistake may not be in the delivery of the punch line.

Getting Started - Opening

August 03, 2018

What is opening? Essentially, it's the first 3-90 seconds of an interaction with a woman, whereby you begin a conversation. With opening, there is good news and bad news. The bad news is that opening can be very scary. Men are biologically predisposed to be incredibly nervous when starting a conversation with a woman that we don't know. There are good evolutionary-biological reasons for this...

Q&A - What Do You Do When She Calls You a Player?

August 03, 2018

Dear Love Systems,

I’m sure you’ve heard this story before, but you’ve changed my life. I got divorced four years ago, and over the next four years, I’d been on exactly five dates, all with women I’d met through friends – and none of these led to sex. I was frustrated and started to resent women, which didn’t make things any better.

Q&A - Approaching Mixed Sets and Tips for Getting in State

August 03, 2018

Love Systems,

I used to go to bars and clubs to meet women and I'd get really drunk before I was able to go up to a girl. Needless to say, I was sloppy. After reading about openers, I couldn't wait to go out and try. It's unbelievable! Now that I know what to say, and it doesn't sound like I'm hitting on her, I have the confidence to talk to any woman. My friends are amazed, and jealous.