Interview Series Vol. 75: Intrigue Based Attraction

Interview with Tenmagnet and Big Business

Unlike state-based attraction where you use your high energy and intensity to command a girl's attention, intrigue-based attraction is a less "in-your-face" approach. With intrigue-based attraction, you exude an air of mystery while dropping occasional clues about yourself. When done effectively, these clues will pique her curiosity and encourage her to fill in the blanks. Join master instructors Big Business and Chris Shepherd (Tenmagnet) in this interview as they teach you how to get a girl to invest in you (and sometimes do the bulk of the work), simply by presenting yourself as an intriguing man.

Some of the questions answered in this interview are:

  • What Intrigue-Based Attraction is and why it works
  • The differences between intrigue-based attraction and state-based attraction
  • Places and situations where intrigue-based attraction is more/less appropriate
  • Examples of things you can do to create intrigue-based attraction
  • How the rest of your game changes when you're using intrigue-based attraction
  • How to convey being mysterious, dangerous, interesting, high-value, etc.
  • Use of intrigue in the comfort stage
  • The definition of kokology