Your identity is her biggest impression of who you are. Often it’s career-related (e.g. “he’s a lawyer”) or relates to your lifestyle (e.g. “I’m going on a date with the surfer guy”). The identity you try to project should be interesting to attractive women but also consistent with you you are. Choosing an identity is often about picking the aspect of your personality or life that you want to emphasize.
Expressing and supporting that identity is crucial. Your friends, your clothes, where you live, your hobbies, what you like to talk about — really, just about everything — must be consistent with your identity, at least at first. In this powerful interview, three Love Systems Master Instructors explain exactly how to construct and present your identity, from A to Z.