Interview Series Vol. 22: Damage Control

Interview with Nick Savoy and Speer

Few interactions are perfect from start to finish, and for those moments when something goes wrong you need good damage control. Savoy is joined by Speer from phaseshiftlounge.com to discuss what to do when your opener fizzles, a woman doesn't respond to your physical escalation, her friend is attracted to you, and much more. Don't ever run away from a woman with your tail between your legs again.

Some of the topics discussed are:

  • Controlling the situation and reframing awkward statements
  • Using your own faux pas to increase your value and lower hers
  • Taking responsibility to minimize negative consequences
  • What to do when an obstacle is attracted to you
  • Dealing with flakes the right way
  • Speer's ABCs of damage control