Fader

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Fader is a true success story. Growing up very outgoing but with minimal success with women he was humble enough to take a long hard look at himself. He realized that he was not living the life he wanted and began to slowly make changes. Devouring self-improvement material he began to reshape his identity. Love Systems was instrumental in him learning that being good with women was a skill-set that's obtainable by anyone who was willing to put in the time and live outside his comfort zone.

Thanks to Love Systems Fader has had the chance to not only improve the quality of both his life and his choice of women, but it has also allowed him to help many others on this journey. Because of his love of self improvement Fader excels in all aspects of both inner and outer game issues and helping students overcome them. Fader has a proven track record spanning years and hundreds of students of all ages and nationalities achieve the goals they want, whether it be marriage (12 of his former students are married or engaged), a long term relationship (there are too many to keep track of), or just to have casual relationships.

Due to his love of psychology/self improvement and "hacking away" at the social matrix Fader specializes in Inner Game, Approach Anxiety, Exotic Dancers, Bartenders & other women who are hired for their looks (shot girls, promo girls, etc). In his "civilian" life he is hired by banks and financial institutions to try to "break into" them and help them find security vulnerabilities and re-mediate them before hackers exploit them. He has taken the same analytical/critical thinking skills that has allowed him to be so successful in the information security field and with Love Systems' help applied the same logic to the social matrix creating the results and the 100+ reviews he has.

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The Power of the Double Bind

October 11, 2018

Double binds are a fascinating concept. As always let’s grab a quick definition from Wikkipedia and then break that down and talk about how we can use this in a social interaction. A double bind is a dilemma in communication in which a person receives two or more conflicting messages and one message denies the other; a no-win situation...
Stripper Game Insights

October 11, 2018

I want to start with saying although I have had a couple of gf’s who were strippers and I have slept with quite a few I have never met any of them in strip clubs. I have always met them through the nyc house music scene where everyone at the party who walks in from 5 – 6 am Sunday and stays till 5 pm Sunday is probably up to no good
Social Circle Insight #1: The inherited power of the proper introduction

October 11, 2018

A friend of mine lives a ridiculous lifestyle. He is the partner of a wall street firm, a super natural, and is constantly hanging out with retardedly hot club girls. We go out one night to a happy hour his friend is bartending at. I am a little tipsy and as we walk in there is what I would consider a bonafide 10 there.
Club Game Insight #1 - Know Thy Enemy

October 10, 2018

In NYC there are really 3 different venues to go. The first is bars, these come in various flavors (dive, sports, theme, etc), the second is Lounges, these are kind of a hybrid bar / club with a lot of couches. These don’t really differentiate that much except by the quality of the crowd (which, in turn...
Social Circle Insight #2 - Show me who your friends are & I will show you who you are

October 10, 2018

Perhaps you have heard that humans are creatures of habit? I tell students there are 3 things that they have to be study to be successful in life and one of these is influence. Why influence? We make decisions every single day and there are a variety of influence triggers that affect what and how we come to our decisions. 
Party Game Insight #1 - Hi, I'm Fader

October 10, 2018

Hi & welcome back. I haven’t written an article in quite some time, mainly because I have to feel inspired to write. I recently went to a house party. Two kegs and the first keg party I had been to in at least 5 years. It was so interesting; it was like going back home but with a new set of eyes if that makes sense. I picked up (no pun intended), so much new information about the underlying dynamics of...
Inner game Insight #1: The Power of Persistence

October 10, 2018

Hi. I haven't written an article in sometime. I generally have to feel inspired to write one and a conversation with a new friend impacted me. At the last NYC workshop we had a student who became lovingly known as "Ass-Dog". Ass-Dog is a genius. This is a guy who graduated from a major college very early, who has had medical papers published in journals and...