I made a video recently from Munich, Bavaria, and I wanted to share it with you guys.
It goes over some of the major differences between how to pick up women in Germany vs other countries such as the US and Canada, where most of the Love Systems instructors are located.
When we did a survey asking guys what their biggest frustrations in dating were, I was actually quite surprised to find that creating attraction was only the third most common frustration on the list, behind breaking the ice and keeping conversation going.
Guys who had this frustration wrote in things like:
I start off strong but I keep landing in the the friend zone with women I like.
I don’t know when to make a move.
The worst thing about approach anxiety is the regret.
You’re out with friends, and you see someone you like. Maybe it’s her glasses or her smile or her hair, but you think, “she’s my type, I bet we would get along.” She looks at you, and smiles. Maybe she sees it too.
She wants you to talk to her.
But you don’t know what to say.
So you wait. And wait. And then you’ve waited to long and she’s gone.
The team and I spent the past week with our business coach (yes, we have a business coach) on the plan for Love Systems for the next few years. We thought a lot about our values, our mission, and how we want to help our customers over the next few years.
And we focused down on four words.
Personal, Practical, Innovative and Inspirational.