Dating Advice

Learning How to Meet Women

We were recently asked a couple of questions at Love Systems and thought it would be a good idea to share the responses here. The question was, “Isn’t it unethical to teach men how to “seduce” women using lines and routines? Shouldn’t men just act natural?”

This hits on something I talk about all the time as it relates to how professional dating instructors teach. There is hypocrisy in that we advertise and teach a logical system for attracting women, because the truth is that what we teach isn’t totally logical. The logical pieces are mostly for the men, lines can work because they give men confidence to approach, not because women “fall” for them.

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A salute to Hugh Hefner

Throughout the years, Love Systems and Playboy have had a great relationship.

We used to host seminars at the playboy mansion regularly (I was invited myself back in 2009), we’ve written many articles for their website, and even invited their writers to attend our seminars.

Which is why it saddened us greatly to learn today that Hugh Hefner has passed away.

What I admired most about Hugh was his drive to bring class and sophistication to an industry that was, for the most part, tasteless. His justification that you didn’t need to appeal to the lowest common denominator in order to win over your average hard working American. That sex and the pursuit of women we’re normal and healthy parts of being a man, and not something we should hide or be ashamed of.

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Dating Older Women

So, you’d like to try your hand at dating older women? Got the old Mrs. Robinson thing going on?

You’re in luck! There’s actually a lot that’s different about dating older women compared to younger ones. Most men don’t realize that as women age their tastes for what they want in a man change as well. Here’s my top 3 tips for dating older women:

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How to get a girl to like you - 5 Easy Steps

How to get a girl to like you - 5 Easy Steps. We’ve all told ourselves this at some point. You’ve just met a cool girl you seem to really connect with, she even seems interested in you! What do you do? You don’t want to say the wrong thing, but you don’t want to just stand there either. How can you consistently create an attractive first impression? Well, believe it or not, there is a bit of a method to it. I’m going to share with you, the top 5 steps for consistently creating attraction and getting a girl to like you.

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Three unexpected benefits of The Social Rockstar Super Conference

It wasn't anything more than blind faith that was telling me to commit a weekend of my life and thousands of my hard earned dollars to attend the Love System's Super Conference last August. But blind faith was enough. And I'm glad it was. Because (little did I know) this weekend would change my life for the better in almost every way imaginable. 

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Date Night Ideas

Ever been stumped for what to do on date night? Don’t worry Love Systems has your back…Whether you’ve been in a relationship for a while, and you’re looking to re-ignite the flame. Or you’re about to head out on your first date, I’m going to give you the recipe for a fun night out.

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How to Text a Girl

How to Text a Girl - You’re at a Friend’s party, and you're introduced to a woman that is exactly your type. You both hit it off, and there is no denying the chemistry between you too. But before you could really get to know each other, her friends whisked her away.

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How To Ask A Girl Out

So you’ve met a woman you like. Maybe it was at work, or through a friend.  Maybe you’ve developed a friendship with her, or maybe she works at the coffee shop and you’ve never really spoke to her for more than a few moments.  In any case, you like her and you want to make a move, how do you do it?

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Three Professional Photo Tips for Tinder

These three professional photo tips from Derek Cajun are going to help your Tinder profile stand out, getting you more matches and more dates. Don't use pictures that look like you're hitting on women, using photos where you are the center of attention and women are hitting on you will make a huge difference.

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Do Nice Guys Finish Last?

For ages, there has been this totally outrageous belief that you have to be a jerk to get the girl. This leads people to ask the age old question: Do Nice Guys Finish Last? You need to be MORE than just nice. You need to be a man of integrity, a man who respects himself and others. A man who stands up for what he believes in.

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