Dating Advice

10 Secrets to a Successful Approach

10 Secrets to a Successful Approach

You see an attractive woman.  You don't know her.  You have no "excuse" to talk to her.  Can you walk up to her and start a conversation - the kind of conversation that's going to lead to attraction and more?

This is a skill any man can master.  And one no man can afford to ignore - If you can't comfortably talk to strangers, you've excluded 99.9% of the women whose path you're going to cross in life.

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Setting Expectations When She Wants More (Q&A)

I was talking on The Lounge the other day with Randall, a Love Systems bootcamp graduate. He's doing great now, and it reminded me of a Q&A I did in the Love Systems' insider (LSi) a little while ago. He said it helped him a lot, so I'm taking a fresh look at it here.

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Why (Most) Women Give Bad Dating Advice

It just doesn’t make sense. Common sense would say that women should be able to give good advice on getting beautiful women interested in you.

But they don’t.

(OK, I’m sure some do. Love Systems Bootcamps occasionally use female instructors or assistants, but...

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10 Steps to Getting a Hot Girl's REAL Phone Number (and she'll answer when you call)

You spend an hour getting ready to go out. Maybe two, counting travel time. Maybe you review your copy of the Magic Bullets Handbook before you leave. You probably approach a few different women before you find one you really like. You’re about another hour into talking to her when you ask for her phone number….

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Threesomes, Runway Models, and the power of frames (part II)

Please click here to read part I. This post won’t make any sense without it.


I invited a bunch of my friends (ah, the joy of mass text messages) to a bustling outdoor bar/café that would have great social energy, drinks, and food. (i.e., no excuses to have to go somewhere else). I invited mostly girls, but also brought one of the students

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Threesomes, Runway Models, and the power of frames (part I)

Women have different rules for men who “get it” – men who have women in their life – than they do for men who don’t.

In other words, men who understand women get to play by a different set of rules. My friend TD called this the “secret society” — but it’s not a secret if you know what to look for.

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The ridiculously awesome week

So the last week before Burning Man was ridiculous.

It started with me going out with good friend Brad P. He was on a pseudo-date with a stripper girl but told me she was bringing a friend and they were all going to this dive bar. I like dive bars. So I hoped in a cab (car broken…again) got a drink, saw Brad, started to walk toward him and….

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Last night's chat transcript - enjoy

I'm not going to do a big intro or anything. My bio is here if you're interested. One of your esteemed moderators forwarded me 10 questions to start the conversation, so I'll just jump straight into that:

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10 Deadly Sins of Transitioning

Wow – a lot of great response to the 10 Deadly Sins of Approaching article. And a bunch of questions along the lines of, “OK, I can approach just fine; what’s next?” The general answer of course is the Transitioning Phase – this is how you “get out” of your opening line or opener into [...]

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10 Deadly Sins of Approaching

Quick checklist time: Do you do any of these things? None of them will help you. 10 Deadly Sins of Approaching1) Taking more than a few seconds after seeing an attractive woman to approach her. Approach right away — it makes you less nervous, it makes her less creeped out, it shows you’re a high [...]

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