Quick checklist time: Do you do any of these things? None of them will help you. 10 Deadly Sins of Approaching1) Taking more than a few seconds after seeing an attractive woman to approach her. Approach right away — it makes you less nervous, it makes her less creeped out, it shows you’re a high [...]
Are gyms a good place to meet women? I see hot girls there all the time, but they always seem busy and have their headphones on.
I love gyms for meeting women. I went to college in Montreal, where it gets pretty darn cold. In the winter, women wear 7 layers of clothing. It's impossible to guess a women's weight within 25 lbs. At least at the gym, you know what you're getting - physically, anyway.View full article →
Moving to a new city or rebuilding your social life in your current city can seem like a daunting task. Few things are tougher than the prospect of starting from ground zero. Moreover, depending on where you are, while your new city may be busy and seemingly bursting with opportunity, it might seem difficult to align yourself into the slipstream of the social flow.
The aims of this document are to aid you in your endeavor of building or re-building your social life from ground zero, while incorporating the principles from the Social Circle Mastery Home Study product. We will explore many of the initial steps you will take if you are moving to a new city or hitting the restart button in your current city.View full article →
When do you use an “indirect” opener? When do you “go direct”?
* Direct does not hide your interest in her. E.g., “Hi, you look interesting. My name is XXX.” (Nothing special about this opener; it’s just a quick example)
* Indirect is where you hide your interest in her at first. Instead, you start the conversation with a pretext. E.g. “Hey, we need you to settle an argument. Do drunk “I love you’s” count?View full article →
Guys don't tend to talk about this stuff. Maybe once in a while your friend might tell you that your opening line was lame or that your clothes are out of style, but most men's lives are not full of messages and advice on how to succeed with women. There's no common male equivalent to women's magazines which are filled with articles like "How to get a guy!", "How to keep him!", and "How to rock his world!"View full article →
The previous Love Systems insider caused some controversy and a flurry of follow-up questions about dates, and I’ll get to the most common issues here. If I don’t get to your specific issue, I’m sorry – I can’t cover everything in the LSi – I make these newsletters really long and content-filled, despite regular (and well-meaning) emails from people who know internet marketing advising me to make them shorter, give away less content, and talk more about why people need our products. I try to stay true to our identity.View full article →
As most of you should know, the comfort phase is the 5th and most important phase of the 7-phase Emotional Progression Model (part of the Triad Model as explained in Magic Bullets). It is assumed that you've read and are up to speed with the concepts from Magic Bullets. We try to keep things as simple as we can, but if the science of being able to attract highly-desirable women consistently was easy, everyone would be doing it. It's a bit complicated, because human psychology is complicated. Here is a quick review of where comfort fits into the model...View full article →
You enter the seduction phase after you and her have spent (usually) at least a few hours together, but not more than about 10.
Seduction is a pretty easy element in itself. It goes wrong for a lot of guys, but this is because of mistakes in comfort that only become apparent when you try to close the deal in seduction. It's like trying to tell a joke. You may feel that you can't deliver punch lines well, because you don't get the laughs. But the mistake may not be in the delivery of the punch line.View full article →
What is opening? Essentially, it's the first 3-90 seconds of an interaction with a woman, whereby you begin a conversation. With opening, there is good news and bad news. The bad news is that opening can be very scary. Men are biologically predisposed to be incredibly nervous when starting a conversation with a woman that we don't know. There are good evolutionary-biological reasons for this...View full article →
Dear Love Systems,
I’m sure you’ve heard this story before, but you’ve changed my life. I got divorced four years ago, and over the next four years, I’d been on exactly five dates, all with women I’d met through friends – and none of these led to sex. I was frustrated and started to resent women, which didn’t make things any better.