Meeting J on Friday amused me, because it further illustrates how, when your game is advanced, success or failure is determined by your ability to create good logistical conditions. J is an absolutely stunning brunette (for a guy who loves blondes) who I'd briefly met six weeks before and who had been diligently not committing to any plans since.View full article →
I get this question all the time: “I used my opener, she responded, what do I do next?” Obviously, the general answer to this is: the Transition phase. If you didn’t know this, then you need to go to the Magic Bullets Handbook page now and download the free chapters on Approaching and on Transitioning.View full article →
Most “nice guys” who read this blog know not to be “the nice guy” or “too nice” when meeting women. As a former “nice guy” myself, I know that this is easier said than done. How hard can it be not to be “nice?” Well, it can be… for the same reasons that any datingView full article →
A lot of the time we talk about meeting women in bars and clubs. Those are great places to meet large volumes of beautiful women in one venue. But, Love Systems goes way beyond this. Last Monday morning, for example: 8am. On my way to work. That’s a bit earlier than normal, so I had time. And through the window of a coffee shop on the way, I saw a woman who caught my attention.View full article →
Everyone on the planet uses routines. Even naturals. Even your dad. Uncle Craig's story he tells every Christmas about his fishing trip to Alaska is a routine. The way you instinctively answer "guess" when a woman asks how old you are is a routine.
A routine is anything you can say or do repeatedly in conversation to get a specific result. In the context of Love Systems, we're talking about...View full article →
Being "naturally" successful with women is the destination, not the process. It's not a learning tool. If I tell you to "be natural" so you pick up women, that's saying "go be a millionaire" in order to get rich. Yes, sure, but how do we do that?
It's all about your habits and instincts. Some people have them "naturally"...View full article →
Now is your chance to take a boot camp with a Master Love Systems Instructor and one of the most successful dating coaches of all time. Here's a few words from Intrigue himself:
I have a new workshop that I want to tell you about. I've created something that may be of serious interest to you. I can help you develop the power to approach and attract women easily and consistently without memorizing routines. I don't know about you , but my goal was always to be able to approach and attract Women naturally without having to stress over what to say to her.
I've been teaching men how to approach and attract women into their lives for 10 years now and I discovered an unknown secret...
You have to build your conversation muscles to attract Women.
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Learning how to get in the right state of mind for dating takes practice and lots of it. Beyond practice, here are some tips to help:
1. Warm Up! Figure out what triggers an enthusiastic emotional state in you, and use it. For me, it's certain songs that I make sure I have in my car on the way to the club. When I get out of the car, I'm ready to go.
You see an attractive woman. You don't know her. You have no "excuse" to talk to her. Can you walk up to her and start a conversation - the kind of conversation that's going to lead to attraction and more?
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This is a skill any man can master. And one no man can afford to ignore - If you can't comfortably talk to strangers, you've excluded 99.9% of the women whose path you're going to cross in life.
I was talking on The Lounge the other day with Randall, a Love Systems bootcamp graduate. He's doing great now, and it reminded me of a Q&A I did in the Love Systems' insider (LSi) a little while ago. He said it helped him a lot, so I'm taking a fresh look at it here.View full article →