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The worst thing about approach anxiety is the regret.
You’re out with friends, and you see someone you like. Maybe it’s her glasses or her smile or her hair, but you think, “she’s my type, I bet we would get along.” She looks at you, and smiles. Maybe she sees it too.
She wants you to talk to her.
But you don’t know what to say.
So you wait. And wait. And then you’ve waited to long and she’s gone.View full article →
Every guy wants to be able to attract women. But let's be honest, some guys seem to have it easy when it comes to attracting women, while other guys (me included) always wind up in second place. But what do those guys have that is so special?View full article →
Most people think that confidence is about judging yourself and thinking you're good. But I've learned that the real secret to confidence is not judging yourself at all.View full article →
One of the biggest questions and struggles guys have is how to appear attractive. What traits and characteristics make up an attractive guy and how are these communicated in the daytime? This is not an exhaustive list, but the 3 points below are important and will get you started on your journey to meeting beautiful women in the daytime.View full article →
The hardest way to impress anyone is to try to impress them. Anything you say that could be seen as bragging or 'try hard' is a turn off to anyone... especially women.
Despite this, of course you still want a girl to know the good things about you. So how do you do it? First, adopt the mindset that you don't need to impress her. You are the prize. Can you imagine Tom Cruise trying to impress a girl? He knows he's attractive to any woman; it would be up to her to prove herself to him. Copy that attitude. Don't be willing to tell a girl too much about yourself when you first meet her - let her show you that she's worth your time.
Every woman I meet knows within three minutes that I'm a serial entrepreneur. That means that I start and I sell companies. (Don't worry; I'm still in charge of Love Systems. This is a passion project for me, not what pays the bills).
Because this is an identity - an archetype that her brain can latch onto. She knows, or thinks she knows, what an entrepreneur is. She's seen entrepreneurs in movies and on TV. I don't know whether she'll think of The Social Network or Steve Jobs or Wolf of Wall Street, but I know she won't draw a blank.View full article →
I just recorded a 10-15 minute video with Hootie -- one of the world's top experts in body language and attraction. Why body language? Because women become attracted based on how you carry yourself much more than on what you say. Good body language conveys power, masculinity, and sexuality. Unfortunately, it's nearly impossible to evaluate your own body language; you need an expert.View full article →
There’s a lot of buzz about all of the new material and shortcuts that Love Systems is rolling out to meet and attract more women (especially so-called “9s and 10s”). But to make the most of the new material, you’ve got to understand the fundamentals. So I’m giving you 15 things that a single man should never do. Most should be obvious, but if you catch yourself doing any of these, watch out. These are beginner-level issues and there are about 150 more of these. If you do two or more, get in touch — we’ll need to do an intervention.View full article →
When you first meet a woman, it’s important to be able to tease her and show your sense of humor quickly – before she writes you off as “just another guy”. One powerful way to do this is called Trigger Words.View full article →