September 15, 2016

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How to Pick up Women in Germany (With Video)

I made a video recently from Munich, Bavaria, and I wanted to share it with you guys. 

It goes over some of the major differences between how to pick up women in Germany vs other countries such as the US and Canada, where most of the Love Systems instructors are located.

How to Pick Up Women In Germany



In the video I explain a few quick things about how to pick up women in Germany:

  • What kind of openers work better in Germany compared to the rest of the world.
  • How demonstrating value needs to be done differently in Germany vs. the USA.
  • How to understand the difference in personal space between Germany and other countries.
  • How some German cultural quirks can make things easier for you, or HARDER, if you don’t understand them.

I always have a great time when I come to Germany, the women here are beautiful and friendly and smart. But there ARE significant differences between German culture and other countries, and you really need to know the difference before you just go out applying  advice from America and the UK to local girls.

Finally – if there are any German guys out there reading this – what do YOU think are the major differences between picking up women in Germany and picking up elsewhere. Is it easier? Harder? What are some techniques that YOU have used that worked for you?


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Chris Shepherd
Chris Shepherd


Chris Shepherd is an instructor with Love Systems. Follow him at @ls_tenmagnet

1 Response


September 17, 2016


I am from germany and what you say makes a lot of sense. Especially the part where you said that the opposite approach of what is normal in a country works better. I always felt like there was some difference in the dynamic of pick up between different countrys. Most of the pick up videos out there are made in the US and it seemed to me not totally different but different to a significant scratch from picking up girls in germany. I remember that people used to say “It’s all the same everywhere” and I never believed that and finally a authority person like you agrees.I also feel like direct approaches work pretty well in germany overall. I did it a couple of times and as an opener it never failed. In the daytime I actually made it a little bit more direct than you were advising, I said something like "Hey, I just saw you from over there and thought you were very pretty so I just had to come over to say “Hi” ". And in the club I also found “Hey, you look very hot. I just had to stop for a moment.” working well. It’s just important to use these openers as a social guy and not as the seductive guy. So I would just open a set of two girls and tell them they look hot and then continue asking how they know each other etc. . Guys in germany usually open indirect,they simply go by saying “Hi :)” or “Hi,how are you” or they just try to flirt with girls, establish eye contact and when girls flirt with them, then they might go over there and tell them they are pretty but other than that they basicly never open a girl directly out of nowhere.

I unfortunately am too poor to bring up 1k$ to take part in the bootcamp but maybe some day, haha.

I wish you a lot of fun in Germany though!


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