Love Systems instructor Vercetti teaches clients how to get good with women fast.
A common question I’m asked is “How long did it take you to get good with women?” And while I'm unable to give a precise answer I am aware of the tools I used to get good quickly. I went through many frustrating nights coming home virtually in tears of frustration but it’s what I did in those moments that enabled me to take major steps and overcome my sticking points.
One of the most useful tools I’ve used to accelerate my learning is Creative Visualization.
In Maxwell Maltz’ book Psycho Cybernetics – which I highly recommend - He basically talks about the use of Visualization to modify and improve your Self Image; it’s extremely powerful.
Preparative Visualisation - The Ideal Image
• Create a vivid motion picture of you or someone who is awesome with women, excelling in a situation you are struggling with.
I did this prior to going out to incorporate things like High Value Sub-Communications, physical and sexual escalation and pretty much any characteristics that were eluding me.
For example: You may have seen the YouTube video of Soul and I on the Lovesystems’ Channel; that was about a year and a half ago. I had asked Soul to teach me everything he knew about Daygame and to push me to the limit, I was shitting myself! I had been a Jedi in “High End Club Game” for about 2 years prior to that and the thought of “crossing over” actually made me very anxious. In order to make my transition smoother and create a Self Image that contained characteristics of a man who meets women anywhere, I had to “See” myself doing well at Day Game, doing approaches and create an internal blueprint to guide me in the real world.
Action Step 1. Third Person – Watch the Experts in Action
• Find a couple of “Mentors” are great in Social Interactions
• Watch them, take note of all aspects of their interactions.
• Find a location where you can relax, completely uninterrupted and go into semi supine position (see below)
NOTE: THEN I WENT OUT AND PRACTICED!
Nothing happens without action and the visualizations, although extremely powerful, are not substitutions for ACTUALLY meeting women and getting your hands dirty.
Corrective Visualizations – Correcting Course
• Learn from your good and bad experiences, never make the same mistake twice
These are EXTREMELY important, in my opinion more important than the first type. They are used at the end of the day having been out interacting and gaining reference experiences.
• Get into Semi Supine
• Rerun all of your interactions for that day (or choose the most significant ones)
• Take note of all the good stuff you did first, the things that were effective, what was awesome about you, your vibe, your Sub Communications etc
• When you get to points where the interaction stalled out, creatively resolve the sticking point.
if you can’t resolve it, ask a wing what they would’ve done. I can recall a number of times in the past where Mr. M and I would talk in the morning after a wild night out and analyze interactions, overcome sticking points and correct course for success next time.
• Replay the whole set in the ideal way, smooth, no glitches, overcoming the obstacles and tests and moving past the point where you stalled out last time.
• Repeat this process on all your sets. You’ll be amazed at how much faster you begin to improve because using mental rehearsal triggers the same neurological responses as actually doing real life rehearsal...However holding a woman in your mind and in real life are worlds apart.
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