This is a long story so I’ll try to keep it brief.
[Hi A.C. This is Savoy and I just edited your brief 2-page letter down to the three paragraphs that lead to a question. You’re welcome.]
One of my friends introduced me to Love Systems and to the book Magic Bullets a couple of years ago, but I got into a relationship and forgot about it. Then last summer a guy moved in near me who was ALWAYS dating hot women and he told me about Love Systems as well.
So, I decided that if so many men were using Love Systems to have better women in their lives I should give it a try as well.
I started with Magic Bullets and the Love Systems Routines Manual and I’m getting better. I am getting phone numbers and dates and had my first one night stand last week. I’ve raised my standards too and am only seeing women who are slim and hot.
My problem is I don’t have the confidence to approach “10”s. They always seem to be with other guys or in big groups. I know my bootcamp (I’m signed up for next February) will solve this but I don’t want to miss out on 10s now!
Thanks, A.C., Providence RI
10s, 10s, 10s... it’s good to have standards. Did you know that men naturally approach the women they feel they “deserve” to get? This is actually part of human biological signalling. Confidently approaching a 10 conveys to her that you think you deserve her.
We’re not going to solve the whole thing in one email and we’re going to stick with “confidence” and “approaching” to keep it simple and focused on your question. Besides, did you know we just did a downloadable audio guide to picking up 10s?
This will only work if you take the pressure off of yourself to “succeed” every time you leave the house. If you feel a night is wasted if you come home without women and phone numbers, you’ll be tempted to break this rule and settle for lower quality.
Only allow an exception if you have a specific plan (e.g., you are about to approach a “10” and want to have women around you when you do).
Expect that your results will drop a bit for a month or two as you adjust to “10 Game.” This is temporary and normal.
During the day, we’re all equal. Hotter women usually go to fancier places, but almost all of us walk, shop, and snack. A “10” at the mall or coffee shop is going to be more approachable than a “10” on Saturday night. That’s one of the reasons Day Game has become so popular.
For Day Game, the guy who is the best in the world – better than me - is called Jeremy Soul.
I should warn you, his Day Game workshops book up well in advance, and he takes a lot of time off to enjoy his... um... lifestyle. But, his blog is always entertaining and insightful and if a spot opens up at a Day Game workshop, jump on it.
Go where there are lots of “10”s – usually upscale clubs, restaurants and events. Women will be subtly competing with each other, which makes it easier than if you’re trying to meet the one “10” who got dragged by her 6 guy friends to a dive bar where she is by far the most attractive woman.
High end clubs are also a slightly different world (just like the high-end women that go to them). If that’s not your usual thing, definitely brush up beforehand so you come off like a confident regular.
Hope this helps! Got more questions? Check out The Attraction Forums.