[Editor's Note: This article originally appeared on Dialled In. Read it here.]
First rule of dating: No Woman is out of your league. If you act to a woman like she’s out of your league, she’ll believe you.
A beautiful woman doesn’t have time to get to know every man who is interested in her. So she’ll rely subconsciously on shortcuts. This is why personality traits like confidence are so important. She knows from experience that confident men often have a lot of good things going for them. They are often interesting, exciting men to spend time with.
In contrast, insecure men or men who kiss up them are often not that interesting in most women’s experience. So if you act like one of those guys, she will think you’re one of those guys, and she won’t give you a chance to prove her wrong.
So how do you show a woman that you’re confident and on her level?
Follow Derek Cajun’s advice and “move like you’re moving under water”. That means slow, controlled movements.
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Teasing isn’t mean; don’t act like a jerk. Just relax and have fun – that’s what she wants you to do.
To be honest, most of the time she is not actually out of your league. Love Systems clients – even ones who started as the classic “40 year old virgin” types – have gone on to date actresses, models, even minor royalty. Being a man means that your personality and lifestyle are more important to most women than your looks alone. So if you change the way you act, you’ll change the way you are perceived.
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