When Nathan came to a Love Systems bootcamp last year, he didn't have a lot of experience with women. Former military, good guy; he wanted more options and better options with women than he'd been getting.
Of course, we went to bars and clubs during his bootcamp. It's the best way to approach lots of hot women over and over when you're learning Love Systems and practicing.
But, for the past three months, he hasn't been out to a single bar or nightclub. And he's dating and hooking up with hot women left and right. What's going on? Is he meeting women at coffee shops? Or doing online dating or Tinder? Sure, all of that has its role, but his focus is building a social circle so you meet women "naturally." Here's a taste of what I mean:
Before I sign off, let me turn the floor over to Nathan for a final word. He recently applied to be a Love Systems instructor (he's not ready yet) and emailing back and forth about his candidacy, he explained how his game has evolved:
I don't really hate bars, they just don't fit my lifestyle too much. I do hate clubs I don't like music, crowds, drinking, or being out at 2am. So as soon as my game got good enough that I could meet enough women through day game, I switched to that. Still, even day game is limiting to what you can accomplish that day and what women happen to be out that day. There's a part of the social circle mastery course where Braddock compares picking up women at a club to be like hunting, and social circle mastery is like farming, and that is SO true. Every time farmers and hunters have competed in history, farmers win. So for the last few months I've been focused on social circle game. It takes a bit more work at first, and you don't go from "hi" to "please f--- me" in a couple hours like you do at a club, but over a couple months it pays off much better. I am friends with gorgeous women who would never talk to a guy at a bar or club. I've hooked up with professional models, something I never dreamed of before. There are honestly more women in my life than I have time for, and the beauty of it all is that there will be even more women tomorrow, the day after, and the day after that. It's a naturally-functioning ecosystem; cool, attractive people introduce me to other cool, attractive, people and if I want to join or lead their social circle, I know what to do. I know if I become an instructor I'll have to go back to approaching women at clubs, at least to do demos, and I'll do a great job at that, but what I'd really love to teach is social circle game.
(edited to remove some unnecessary detail; the actual email was 1836 words)
If anything, social circle game is even more valuable and important over the holidays. This is a great time to upgrade your skills - and your social life.
Here's the link again for the Social Circle Mastery Home Study Course - everything you need to transform your day-to-day social life.
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