STOP THE INSANITY!
Some people out there are making dating MUCH too complicated.
Of course, getting really good with women isn’t easy. If it were easy, everyone would do it. But just because it’s not something you can do in an afternoon doesn’t mean that it has to be complicated.
So, here are 5 simple facts you should know if you want to date more women:
No supermodel “10” looks like a “10” when she wakes up in the morning. Trust me, I’ve woken up next to a few. She chose to make the most of her genetic gifts and spend the time at the gym, the spa, the mall, the hairdresser, and so on.
A lot of men act like they resent beautiful women. They think that these women are all vain, or unintelligent, or shallow (or they say that that’s what they think – usually they just resent a history of rejection from beautiful women).
Of course, some beautiful women do have horrible personalities. But mostly they make themselves beautiful to feel good about themselves and be more attractive to men – to you. You’re learning Love Systems to learn how to attract women and/or find a great girl.
If you were a woman, wouldn’t you make the most of your looks (and personality) to get better with men?
Repeat after me: I love being around beautiful women. I thrive when I’m around beautiful women. Internalize those beliefs. And then act on them.
No, that’s not a typo. Some guys think that beautiful women come from another planet, or that attracting such a woman is like picking a lock or disarming a bomb.
Beautiful women like to laugh and joke around with friends, don’t want everyone to put them on a pedestal, and want to be treated as an individual instead of a caricature – just like any other woman, or indeed, any other person.
Of course, most beautiful women have higher standards on average (and less time to develop an interest in, say, your computer game collection), but there’s nothing wrong with standards.
One thing that we see over and over in surveys after someone takes a Love Systems Bootcamp/Day Game Workshop and learns how to qualify women is “now I can finally raise my standards and stop settling”. She doesn’t want to settle either – so don’t make her feel like she’s settling when she meets you.
You are not the Warren Buffett of dating. If you see an attractive woman and want to meet her – you’re not the first man to try. Or even the 1000th.
Here’s what 99% of men do: Try to get over their approach anxiety and eventually approach the girl. If they do approach her, they'll try to make up something “cool” to say on the spot. If that works, they'll ask her lots of questions and look for things they have in common…
…and this is why 99% of men fail. And when they don’t fail, they don’t call it skill. They call it “getting lucky” which is exactly what it is.
Love Systems is based on watching what the other 1% of guys do, breaking it down into simple steps that everyone can use, and then sharpening it all so it’s much more powerful than what even the best “naturals” do.
If you don’t already have the Magic Bullets Handbook, it’s a great place to start to learn the Love Systems secrets. Or if you’re a more of a hands-on kind of guy and learn by doing, then consider a bootcamp or Day Game Workshop.
Remember, being beautiful is a choice. Women who make that choice want it to pay off with better-quality men in their life. Just like you wouldn’t go back to settling for women you’re not attracted to after you get the skills from a Love Systems bootcamp, a beautiful woman isn’t likely to settle when she gets attention from lots of different men.
It may feel that way sometimes, but beautiful women do not get dressed to go out in public for the sheer pleasure of rejecting men.
All of the effort she puts in herself has a purpose – to feel good about herself and to be more attractive to men. Interesting men. Men who understand women.
Men who know how to talk to girls. Men who understand how to flirt and how to seduce a woman without awkwardness. Men who know Love Systems.
Even if she looks busy or like she doesn’t want to meet anyone – if she’s at a bar, club, party, or somewhere else where people meet her – you’re not going to get any points for being “respectful”. All you’ll get is a birds-eye view when another Love Systems-trained man approaches her, starts flirting, and shows how to get women.
Sure, a lot of women will SAY that they don’t want to meet guys, or that the constant attention bothers them. And sometimes it does. But, when you understand female psychology, you learn this is just something women have to say, or they become easy targets for women who are jealous of them.
I get asked all the time questions like “does Love Systems work in [whatever country] or just in the U.S.?”
That’s pretty funny to me because I’m not American and almost no one involved in Love Systems at the beginning was American or living in the U.S. The real question 10 years ago should have been “OK you crazy guys from the UK, Australia, Germany, etc. – does this stuff work in the U.S.?”
And of course it does. It’s been proven more times than I can count, but WHY? If cultures are different, how can the same overall approach work across cultures?
The reason is that culture lays on top of biology. The biological instincts of a young attractive man will be the same in Michigan as they are in Mali or Madras. Culture will impact what he does with those instincts, but they’re there. Same with beautiful women.
A “10” in Hong Kong has much more in common with a “10” in London than she does with a “4” back home. That's why it's important to learn how to date 9's and 10's.
This isn’t just an interesting piece of sociology. It has an impact. Because if beautiful women tend to have the same biological instincts around the world, then they respond to the same things. That’s why we were able to boil these characteristics down to 8 key “attraction switches” in Magic Bullets.
If you don’t know anything about a woman other than that she’s beautiful, then it doesn’t matter whether you’re in Paris or Pennsylvania – you best bet is to use the same 8 attraction switches until you make her like you.