Most people think that women are naturally “choosier” than men. And that an attractive woman can get almost any man she wants, but a man has to have a lot going for him AND have great “game.”
Guess what? That’s only true if you believe it’s true.
(Love Systems has been teaching this for years. Now scientists are helping prove it.)
The Psychology Today study used “Speed Dating” where single people have a series of 5-minute “dates” with each other. Usually women sit at tables and men rotate around until every man has had a “date” with every woman. Then everyone writes the names of the people they liked and if there’s a match, they get each other’s phone number.
Psychology Today looked at thousands of speed dating sessions and found that women listed far fewer “matches” than men. On the surface, score 1 for conventional wisdom and 0 for Love Systems. But then they took a page out of the Love Systems manual and “flipped the script.” Instead of women sitting and men rotating (and “approaching” them), the men sat and the women rotated.
This completely changed the results. Now women – even especially attractive women – listed many more men they were attracted to then before.
This shouldn’t surprise experienced members of the Love Systems community. Many Love Systems techniques are based on 1/ “flipping the script” and making her chase you, and 2/ manipulating the physical and social environment so that it “feels” like she is hitting on you... and then she often will.
I could go on forever, but I think I’ve taken enough of a victory lap. Read the original Psychology Today study here.
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