Happy Holidays from Love Systems!
Let’s get straight to the mailbag – there are some crucial questions in there about meeting and attracting beautiful women at holiday parties this year.
Are Christmas and holiday parties good places to meet women? Do you have any special advice for these? I have trouble approaching women I don’t know and I don’t want to make an ass of myself around people who I do know.
-Cameron F., Evansville, IN
Holiday parties are GREAT places to meet women. People are happy and social, and single women want to meet men. Women you won’t normally meet during the year still go out during the holidays. And there are lots of parties.
In other words, it’s easier. There’s more variety. And the quality is higher. What more could a man want?
For you, with “approach anxiety” one benefit of parties is they make it easier to start conversations with women. At parties, people are SUPPOSED to meet each other. It’s not like a coffee shop (where people might be busy) or a nightclub (where people pretend they are not there to meet each other). Some of my best holiday pickups have started with:
“Hi, I’m Savoy. How do you know [name of the host]?”
Or, even better, get your friends to help. At parties, most people are connected in some way, so find someone who knows that hot girl you want and get them to introduce you. Done.
A couple tips to make approaching at parties even easier:
Good luck, and happy holidays,
My brother recommended the Love Systems interview series to me a while ago, and I’m hooked. I’ve been a subscriber for almost a year and I get the old volumes for anything that is holding me back. I’ve listened to your interviews on Social Circles and on “Warm Approach” and they’ve helped me a lot, but what would be really useful would be an interview that just goes through the differences between nightclub game and party game. I know that I, and a lot of my friends who are also subscribers, would really appreciate this!
-Christopher P., Brighton, U.K.
I agree – despite being the most affordable Love Systems product at less than $1 per day, the interview series is actually among the very best ways to improve your success with women. A lot of Love Systems instructors, who are among the best in the world at dating and attracting beautiful women, swear by the interview series as being crucial to them achieving the life that they want.
As for your question about parties vs. nightclubs – we probably won’t do an interview on it, so I’ll give you some pointers right here. (We try to make our interviews like the magic pills from The Matrix – you want to learn how to approach, or pick up “9s” and “10s” or even how to create a powerful voice and tonality - you download, listen a few times, and get a new skill... So, we don’t usually cover “theoretical” subjects like Day Game vs. Night Game or Parties vs. Clubs.)
For the holiday season, here are some key ways that a party is different from a nightclub:
In a way, a party is like a very compressed Social Circle situation. So, if you’re watched any of the stuff by Braddock or Mr. M on Social Circle mastery, you’ll be well ahead of the game.
Must-Have Tips & Techniques From the Forums:
Have a great time over the holiday season!