Do you worry that you have to “settle” for less attractive or less interesting women when you get older?
There’s a reason some older men feel this way. I’m not going to pretend that attracting beautiful women is the same if you’re 21 or 61. SOME women just won’t date an older man. Some women won’t date outside their religion or ethnicity. That’s life.
BUT…you’re not trying to be with EVERY woman on the planet. Even if you want a different woman every night, that means all the women you sleep with this year would fit into a large airplane, with seats to spare. For every narrow-minded woman, there are tons of women who are just as hot and just as interesting as the ones the 28-year olds are dating, who will want to be with you.
If you are with someone because you don’t feel you can do any better, you are cheating yourself.
Take my friend and colleague Jeff (aka Love Systems instructor “Bullet”). He turns 50 this year. He passed through the same tough criteria and infield tests as every other Love Systems instructor, and picks up the same quality women.
And it’s all with “cold approach” at coffee shops, lounges, and nightclubs. He travels the world helping out at Love Systems bootcamps, and doesn’t stay anywhere long enough to use Social Circle Mastery. But he has a network of beautiful women in their 20s and 30s in every port of call.
We’re not talking about desperate women either. One of the guys snuck a camera into the last Love Systems bootcamp to see if Bullet was for real. It’s not the best hidden-camera footage in the world, but she’s obviously attractive:
One of the things Bullet DOESN’T do is pretend to be rich. That can work, but isn’t really very satisfying. And since Bullet HAS done well in life, he doesn’t want gold-diggers.
What he has done is adapt the fundamentals of Love Systems to make it specific to men in their late 30s, 40s, and 50s. Kind of like what Jeremy Soul did when he saw how powerful Love Systems could be for Day Game, just by making a few changes and emphasizing some things more than others. Bullet has done the same for older men, especially older men dating younger women.
In a recent TV interview, Jeff (Bullet) said:
“When you’re significantly older than she is, there’s less margin for error. You’ve got to have tight specialist game both in verbal and non-verbal communication. If you’re already reasonably familiar with the Love Systems approach, I can teach you what you need in one day and one night.”
Here are some of the things that Bullet emphasizes:
It’s not a completely new system. It can’t be if he’s training you on it in one day and one night. It’s the approach you already use (Love Systems), highly-targeted to you personally. Just like how Fader can show you how to refine Love Systems to pick up strippers or Nick Hoss can teach how to adjust Love Systems to pick up at malls and street corners, Bullet specializes in older men.
Life is short. Live it with the quality of women you deserve. Is it worth it to you to check this out, if Bullet can correct things you probably don’t even know that you’re doing that stand in the way of the life, and the women, you deserve?
Like I said, Bullet is always on the move, so I don’t have a schedule for him. To learn more about Bullet, contact us.
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