Do you want to have regular sex with attractive women - without commitment? It's really about being good at three things:
There's no way we can cover any of those in depth in one article, so use this as a troubleshooting guide to see where you can improve. I'll include lots of links. Let's get started!
Obviously, you need to meet and attract women.
It doesn't matter if you meet her at a bar, coffee shop, or through friends, you need to create attraction.
But it's not just any kind of attraction. If she sees you as a potential boyfriend, she might hold off with you to keep you interested - even if she's having sex with someone else. (Put it this way. Most young attractive women are having sex with someone. If it's not you, who?)
The kind of attraction you want will come from:
...and most of all:
Set her expectations. Like I said in my relationship management DVD course, "relationship management begins before you sleep with her."
The course covers getting a long-term girlfriend, multiple simultaneous girlfriends, friends with benefits, and one-night stands, but setting expectations is especially important if you want a friend with benefits.
There is a right way and a wrong way to do this.
The wrong way is to be blatant. If you tell a woman, "Hey, I just want to be clear, this is just sex; I don't want you to get the wrong idea," you may lose her even if she originally wanted the exact same thing as you. She may feel devalued, like you're just using her or you don't think she’d be good enough to date.
One of the top dating coaches in the world by the name of Braddock solved this problem by introducing a false barrier when things get hot and heavy. He'll say something like, "Wait... are you going to be the 'what are we?' girl after this? [quick pause] Oh my God, you are, aren't you?" She'll rush to object that she's cool and not a drama queen, etc. Without making her feel awkward, you've set expectations.
But some women still will be crazy - check out What Crazy Looks Like Via Text Messaging.
Be Good in Bed. It's sort of an obvious one, and this isn’t a sex tips newsletter. But if you are looking for proven help in that area, check out Ascension - created by people who make women go wild with pleasure for a living (adult film performers).
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A few simple things that can also help. These aren't as big factors as the three we just covered, but every advantage helps:
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