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September 15, 2016

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How to Pick up Women in Germany (With Video)

I made a video recently from Munich, Bavaria, and I wanted to share it with you guys. 

It goes over some of the major differences between how to pick up women in Germany vs other countries such as the US and Canada, where most of the Love Systems instructors are located.

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September 06, 2016

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The Deceptively Simple Guide to Understanding and Creating Attraction

When we did a survey asking guys what their biggest frustrations in dating were, I was actually quite surprised to find that creating attraction was only the third most common frustration on the list, behind breaking the ice and keeping conversation going.

Guys who had this frustration wrote in things like:

I start off strong but I keep landing in the the friend zone with women I like.

I don’t know when to make a move.

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August 01, 2016

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Conversation - How to never run out of things to say and make every conversation interesting

You see a woman across the bar who flashes you some eyes. Somehow you find the courage to walk over and introduce yourself. She smiles flirtatiously and gives you her name. Your mind is racing trying to think of something to say...

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July 25, 2016

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Approaching - The First Frustration

The worst thing about approach anxiety is the regret.

You’re out with friends, and you see someone you like. Maybe it’s her glasses or her smile or her hair, but you think, “she’s my type, I bet we would get along.” She looks at you, and smiles. Maybe she sees it too.

She wants you to talk to her.

But you don’t know what to say.

So you wait. And wait. And then you’ve waited to long and she’s gone.

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July 21, 2016

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Personal, Practical, Innovative and Inspiring (A video preview of Super Conference)

The team and I spent the past week with our business coach (yes, we have a business coach) on the plan for Love Systems for the next few years. We thought a lot about our values, our mission, and how we want to help our customers over the next few years.

And we focused down on four words. 

Personal, Practical, Innovative and Inspirational.

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June 23, 2016

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The Six Frustrations of the Single Man

Last week, we sent out a survey to 70,000 guys on our mailing list, asking three simple questions about their dating lives. And the response we got was overwhelming. Hundreds of guys filled out the survey, sharing their biggest frustrations, obstacles and goals. And the answers we got were inspiring, fascinating and gave us some great information we're going to use to give you guys better advice. 

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June 17, 2016

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How to Attract Women: Seven Easy Lessons

Every guy wants to be able to attract women. But let's be honest, some guys seem to have it easy when it comes to attracting women, while other guys (me included) always wind up in second place. But what do those guys have that is so special? 

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May 24, 2016

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Big News From the NEW Love Systems

It’s Derek Cajun here, and I just wanted to send you all an email about some big changes going on at Love Systems.

As you may know from this afternoon’s email, Nick Savoy moved on from  Love Systems and has handed over management of the company to a new, instructor-led team.

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May 23, 2016

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The Real Secret of Confidence - That Nobody Has Told You Yet

Most people think that confidence is about judging yourself and thinking you're good. But I've learned that the real secret to confidence is not judging yourself at all.

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February 01, 2016

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Baller Mindsets for Success

Everything is hard before it is easy. Skill sets take time and practice to develop. When I first played basketball, I was nowhere as good as I am now. Mastery takes time, repetition and failure. Here are my favorite mindsets for playing the game of love. Note that just using one at a time will greatly help your results.

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