Dating Advice

The Power of the Double Bind

Double binds are a fascinating concept. As always let’s grab a quick definition from Wikkipedia and then break that down and talk about how we can use this in a social interaction. A double bind is a dilemma in communication in which a person receives two or more conflicting messages and one message denies the other; a no-win situation...

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Social Circle Insight #1: The inherited power of the proper introduction

A friend of mine lives a ridiculous lifestyle. He is the partner of a wall street firm, a super natural, and is constantly hanging out with retardedly hot club girls. We go out one night to a happy hour his friend is bartending at. I am a little tipsy and as we walk in there is what I would consider a bonafide 10 there.

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10 Game Insight #1 - Sexuality used as a weapon

As I posted in my first social circle article I have been re-establishing links in the nyc club scene with some of my old friends. This has led me to play social circle game and generally be around hotter girls. I had a very interesting experience in the poconos a few weeks ago when we rented a house for the weekend and went snowboarding. Let me set the scene...

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Club Game Insight #1 - Know Thy Enemy

In NYC there are really 3 different venues to go. The first is bars, these come in various flavors (dive, sports, theme, etc), the second is Lounges, these are kind of a hybrid bar / club with a lot of couches. These don’t really differentiate that much except by the quality of the crowd (which, in turn...

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Social Circle Insight #2 - Show me who your friends are & I will show you who you are

Perhaps you have heard that humans are creatures of habit? I tell students there are 3 things that they have to be study to be successful in life and one of these is influence. Why influence? We make decisions every single day and there are a variety of influence triggers that affect what and how we come to our decisions. 

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Party Game Insight #1 - Hi, I'm Fader

Hi & welcome back. I haven’t written an article in quite some time, mainly because I have to feel inspired to write. I recently went to a house party. Two kegs and the first keg party I had been to in at least 5 years. It was so interesting; it was like going back home but with a new set of eyes if that makes sense. I picked up (no pun intended), so much new information about the underlying dynamics of...

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Inner game Insight #1: The Power of Persistence

Hi. I haven't written an article in sometime. I generally have to feel inspired to write one and a conversation with a new friend impacted me. At the last NYC workshop we had a student who became lovingly known as "Ass-Dog". Ass-Dog is a genius. This is a guy who graduated from a major college very early, who has had medical papers published in journals and...

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The Secretary Opener

I sat down with Brad P and The Don for the Interview Series on “Taking Chances“.

We talked about why it’s important to take chances, with a lot of specific reasons. We also gave lots of examples of ways and places we take chances. I briefly introduced “The secretary opener”, more as a genre than as a specific example, but I’ve had enough emails about it that I’ll throw it out there now.

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Trying to "get back" a woman's emotional state

Have you ever been in a position where it is SO "on" with a woman and then later it's not? How she tell you she thinks you're her soulmate on Wednesday, but on Saturday just wants to be friends?

This isn't unique to women of course - it's a human trait.

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Field Report: Vegas Adventure

I caught the last flight up to Vegas on Saturday night. Actually, let's rewind. I saw a really phenomenal blonde in the departure lobby for the flight to Vegas. I approached her with the very advanced opener of "Is this the flight to Vegas?" This is a truly devastatingly effective opener and communicates a lot of value from the get-go. Usually women orgasm when I open in this way.

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