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October 24, 2016


Halloween: Tips for making the most of it


You’re going out for Halloween right? If you answered no, I would rethink that decision. Why?

Because it’s a HUGE opportunity for meeting women.

There are a number of advantages that Halloween brings that makes it one of the best holidays of the year to go out, the most important being that there are loads of parties to attend, and an endless amount of attractive women dressed to the nines to talk to.

So, with that in mind let’s go over my top tips for making this Halloween one you’ll remember:

1. Start planning early:

You should already have an idea of which party you’re going to go to, and what your costume is going to be by now. If not, that’s ok I’ll give you some help for that in a bit, but make sure you start early next year. Keep your ear to the ground on social media, many bars and venues have Halloween themed events and you want to make sure you’re attending the right one and have a ticket before they’re sold out. Start early!


2. Pick a good costume:

This is a big one, so let’s break it down:

If you’re going out with a group sometimes it works to have a theme to all of your costumes. This can build some social value and get you easy attention from other groups, for example the magnificent 7, Olympic swimming team, or the Avengers.

Try to get a costume that has some sort of masculine or attractive quality to it, and that women will recognize. Don’t just go for a gag costume. Women use halloween as an excuse to go a bit nuts with their sexuality, and so should you if possible. Things like cowboys, doctors, and male strippers are easy examples that you can pick up today and will work fine in a pinch, but they don’t stand out too much.

Try costumes like Mad Max, Jon Snow, Indiana Jones, and Starlord (From Guardians of the Galaxy). Avoid costumes that you think are cool but women wouldn’t necessarily get, like Geralt of Rivia or some obscure anime character you like. You should also avoid costumes that hide your face completely, so deadpool may not be a good option.

Put a lot of work into your costume, don’t just buy a pre-made one from amazon if you can help it. Go to thrift stores and try to get the details right. It makes a difference when everyone is dressed up, you’ll stand out and get more women talking to you.


3. Role-play: One of the reasons women love dressing up for Halloween is because they get to “Role play” to a certain extent as their costume. The boundary of what they would be willing to do in a social situation gets opened up because of this.

Obvious and open flirting is much more acceptable when they’re not really portraying themselves. So, don’t be afraid to use roleplaying as a way to get a conversation more interesting.

If you’re dressed as a character who’s known to be a bit more forward with women, then you should act it. If she’s dressed as someone who your character would find attractive then you should tell her that.

Marry women, tell them they’re your girlfriend for the night, hire them to protect you, there’s plenty here to work with. Role plays are a pretty involved subject, check out our recent Smooth talker special (currently 60% off) for tons of information about them.


4. Have fun! Remember that Halloween more than anything is all about having a good time. Introduce yourself to people as your character for an easy opener. Feign having an existing relationship if her costume is connected to yours in some way, mingle and get to know everyone.

Remember: When socialising with others, you’re not putting on a show for them. It’s the other way around. Find a good show.

Until next time,

~Derek Cajun
October 12, 2016


Does she like you? - How to read her signals and never miss an opportunity

It’s happened to all of us.

You’re in the middle of a conversation with a woman and suddenly you think “I wonder if she’s attracted to me? Is she flirting?” She’s smiling, and the conversation is going well, but how can you be sure?

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October 07, 2016


My Super Conference Experience (By Tanner)

Tanner was one of the attendees at this year's Super Conference. We asked him to share his experience as a first-time attendee to Super Conference 2016.

When I stepped off Air Canada flight 1878 with service to Las Vegas, I was nervous as hell. I had waited for this weekend for the last six months but now it was finally here, and I had no idea what to expect.

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September 15, 2016

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How to Pick up Women in Germany (With Video)

I made a video recently from Munich, Bavaria, and I wanted to share it with you guys. 

It goes over some of the major differences between how to pick up women in Germany vs other countries such as the US and Canada, where most of the Love Systems instructors are located.

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September 06, 2016


The Deceptively Simple Guide to Understanding and Creating Attraction

When we did a survey asking guys what their biggest frustrations in dating were, I was actually quite surprised to find that creating attraction was only the third most common frustration on the list, behind breaking the ice and keeping conversation going.

Guys who had this frustration wrote in things like:

I start off strong but I keep landing in the the friend zone with women I like.

I don’t know when to make a move.

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August 01, 2016


Conversation - How to never run out of things to say and make every conversation interesting

You see a woman across the bar who flashes you some eyes. Somehow you find the courage to walk over and introduce yourself. She smiles flirtatiously and gives you her name. Your mind is racing trying to think of something to say...

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July 25, 2016


Approaching - The First Frustration

The worst thing about approach anxiety is the regret.

You’re out with friends, and you see someone you like. Maybe it’s her glasses or her smile or her hair, but you think, “she’s my type, I bet we would get along.” She looks at you, and smiles. Maybe she sees it too.

She wants you to talk to her.

But you don’t know what to say.

So you wait. And wait. And then you’ve waited to long and she’s gone.

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July 21, 2016


Personal, Practical, Innovative and Inspiring (A video preview of Super Conference)

The team and I spent the past week with our business coach (yes, we have a business coach) on the plan for Love Systems for the next few years. We thought a lot about our values, our mission, and how we want to help our customers over the next few years.

And we focused down on four words. 

Personal, Practical, Innovative and Inspirational.

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June 23, 2016


The Six Frustrations of the Single Man

Last week, we sent out a survey to 70,000 guys on our mailing list, asking three simple questions about their dating lives. And the response we got was overwhelming. Hundreds of guys filled out the survey, sharing their biggest frustrations, obstacles and goals. And the answers we got were inspiring, fascinating and gave us some great information we're going to use to give you guys better advice. 

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June 17, 2016


How to Attract Women: Seven Easy Lessons

Every guy wants to be able to attract women. But let's be honest, some guys seem to have it easy when it comes to attracting women, while other guys (me included) always wind up in second place. But what do those guys have that is so special? 

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