Dating Advice

The Power of the Double Bind

Double binds are a fascinating concept. As always let’s grab a quick definition from Wikkipedia and then break that down and talk about how we can use this in a social interaction. A double bind is a dilemma in communication in which a person receives two or more conflicting messages and one message denies the other; a no-win situation...

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Stripper Game Insights

I want to start with saying although I have had a couple of gf’s who were strippers and I have slept with quite a few I have never met any of them in strip clubs. I have always met them through the nyc house music scene where everyone at the party who walks in from 5 – 6 am Sunday and stays till 5 pm Sunday is probably up to no good

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Stripper Game Insights II

Welcome back. This is my sequel to the previous article stripper game insights. As I said in the previous post I was never really into strip clubs until this year and I have been going to different ones in different parts of the country so I can fully experience it. I think overall stripper game is in some respects easier but...

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Social Circle Insight #1: The inherited power of the proper introduction

A friend of mine lives a ridiculous lifestyle. He is the partner of a wall street firm, a super natural, and is constantly hanging out with retardedly hot club girls. We go out one night to a happy hour his friend is bartending at. I am a little tipsy and as we walk in there is what I would consider a bonafide 10 there.

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10 Game Insight #1 - Sexuality used as a weapon

As I posted in my first social circle article I have been re-establishing links in the nyc club scene with some of my old friends. This has led me to play social circle game and generally be around hotter girls. I had a very interesting experience in the poconos a few weeks ago when we rented a house for the weekend and went snowboarding. Let me set the scene...

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Club Game Insight #1 - Know Thy Enemy

In NYC there are really 3 different venues to go. The first is bars, these come in various flavors (dive, sports, theme, etc), the second is Lounges, these are kind of a hybrid bar / club with a lot of couches. These don’t really differentiate that much except by the quality of the crowd (which, in turn...

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Social Circle Insight #2 - Show me who your friends are & I will show you who you are

Perhaps you have heard that humans are creatures of habit? I tell students there are 3 things that they have to be study to be successful in life and one of these is influence. Why influence? We make decisions every single day and there are a variety of influence triggers that affect what and how we come to our decisions. 

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Party Game Insight #1 - Hi, I'm Fader

Hi & welcome back. I haven’t written an article in quite some time, mainly because I have to feel inspired to write. I recently went to a house party. Two kegs and the first keg party I had been to in at least 5 years. It was so interesting; it was like going back home but with a new set of eyes if that makes sense. I picked up (no pun intended), so much new information about the underlying dynamics of...

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Inner game Insight #1: The Power of Persistence

Hi. I haven't written an article in sometime. I generally have to feel inspired to write one and a conversation with a new friend impacted me. At the last NYC workshop we had a student who became lovingly known as "Ass-Dog". Ass-Dog is a genius. This is a guy who graduated from a major college very early, who has had medical papers published in journals and...

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The Secretary Opener

I sat down with Brad P and The Don for the Interview Series on “Taking Chances“.

We talked about why it’s important to take chances, with a lot of specific reasons. We also gave lots of examples of ways and places we take chances. I briefly introduced “The secretary opener”, more as a genre than as a specific example, but I’ve had enough emails about it that I’ll throw it out there now.

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