From all the different backgrounds, skills and stories that every attendee has, the path inevitably leads to the same focal point: we admit that we want to be better with women. While this may be an obvious point, a realization I had very early on was that this extends into all aspects of your life. This is more about becoming your best self and the best man you can possibly be, which affects all relationships that you come into contact with on a daily basis. Once you improve your inner game, self-image, and quiet the voices in your head that can be deafening at times, you become laid back and care free.View full article →
Here’s a list of 10 ways to improve your success with women, written by former Love Systems Instructor Soul. By implementing these, you will see big improvements in your overall life as well as in your success with women.
1. Stop reading all dating forums for two weeks. Bar yourself from reading, writing, or replying to any posts on any internet dating science forum. You will discover that time spent working on yourself is more valuable that arguing, debating or defending any aspect of dating science.View full article →
Every place I go at least once a week, I am pretty sure I know most of the staff members. I would suggest you do the same thing. Get to know the staff of places you frequent. It might come in handy some day like it did for me.
In fact, a couple weeks prior I had a similar situation. I was at a Jamba Juice I always go to after the gym. Same deal. I know the staff, they know me. When I walked in, we greeted each other and there happened to be a MILF in there. Few minutes later, we exchanged numbers.
You spend an hour getting ready to go out. Maybe two, counting travel time. Maybe you review your copy of the Magic Bullets Handbook before you leave. You probably approach a few different women before you find one you really like. You’re about another hour into talking to her when you ask for her phone number….
Don’t screw this part up. You’ve already invested a few hours into your night – and this woman could be your future long-term girlfriend or whatever… or you could screw it all up in about 30 seconds.
How to get a girl’s phone number
Remember these ten rules:
There’s nothing worse than getting put into the friend zone by a girl you like. Instead of dating her, you have become her buddy. You’ve become a therapist and a shoulder to cry on. Here are some valuable tips that will help you to get out of the friend zone with a girl you like.
First, you’re going to have to spend a lot less time with her for a while. The reason you need a break from her is because it's hard to change the frame from friend to sexual, it’s going backwards. To try and physically escalate with her at this point will feel weird to you and her. The time away from each other should help with this.View full article →
We were recently asked a couple of questions at Love Systems and thought it would be a good idea to share the responses here. The question was, “Isn’t it unethical to teach men how to “seduce” women using lines and routines? Shouldn’t men just act natural?”
This hits on something I talk about all the time as it relates to how professional dating instructors teach. There is hypocrisy in that we advertise and teach a logical system for attracting women, because the truth is that what we teach isn’t totally logical. The logical pieces are mostly for the men, lines can work because they give men confidence to approach, not because women “fall” for them.View full article →
Throughout the years, Love Systems and Playboy have had a great relationship.We used to host seminars at the playboy mansion regularly (I was invited myself back in 2009), we’ve written many articles for their website, and even invited their writers to attend our seminars.
So, you’d like to try your hand at dating older women? Got the old Mrs. Robinson thing going on?
You’re in luck! There’s actually a lot that’s different about dating older women compared to younger ones. Most men don’t realize that as women age their tastes for what they want in a man change as well. Here’s my top 3 tips for dating older women:
How to get a girl to like you - 5 Easy Steps. We’ve all told ourselves this at some point. You’ve just met a cool girl you seem to really connect with, she even seems interested in you! What do you do? You don’t want to say the wrong thing, but you don’t want to just stand there either. How can you consistently create an attractive first impression? Well, believe it or not, there is a bit of a method to it. I’m going to share with you, the top 5 steps for consistently creating attraction and getting a girl to like you.