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When do you use an “indirect” opener? When do you “go direct”?
* Direct does not hide your interest in her. E.g., “Hi, you look interesting. My name is XXX.” (Nothing special about this opener; it’s just a quick example)
* Indirect is where you hide your interest in her at first. Instead, you start the conversation with a pretext. E.g. “Hey, we need you to settle an argument. Do drunk “I love you’s” count?
You enter the seduction phase after you and her have spent (usually) at least a few hours together, but not more than about 10.
Seduction is a pretty easy element in itself. It goes wrong for a lot of guys, but this is because of mistakes in comfort that only become apparent when you try to close the deal in seduction. It's like trying to tell a joke. You may feel that you can't deliver punch lines well, because you don't get the laughs. But the mistake may not be in the delivery of the punch line.