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How to Maximize your Facebook Profile For Dating
We're going to start this article off with a disclaimer: Facebook is minor, not even being necessary in the context of dating. Don’t be one of those guys who pay more attention to his Facebook profile than to going out and learning real social skills. Facebook is a branch on the social tree, not the tree’s trunk.
Here's a list of ways that you can maximize your FB profile for dating. Written by a leading professional in the dating advice world: Nick Hoss.
I use Facebook as a grounding tool. Any woman I’m adding to Facebook is a woman whose number I already have. Pissing around for weeks trying to convert a girl over Facebook chat is a waste of time for me, and I’d rather use that time to hit the streets or the club to practice real social skills.
Love Systems is famous for teaching men how to pick up women at bars and clubs. Or at restaurants and coffee shops (aka “Day Game”). Or through friends, acquaintances, and coworkers (aka “Social Circle Game”).
But one question which was never answered until recently was – does the same Love Systems approach work for online dating? A little while ago, I asked Derek Cajun, Love Systems CEO and top instructor, to put Love Systems to the test online. Cajun was the natural choice for this, since he’s one of the most experienced Love Systems instructors.
Approach anxiety is a brick wall I hear about all the time that guys hit in game. It is not unnatural, it is completely normal, you are just passing through one of the stages that everyone who gets into game goes through. So, let’s get to it.
The # 1 reason we get approach anxiety is our ‘Fear of Rejection’. Our minds tell us not to approach people we don’t know as it is outside of our comfort zones. You have to realize that males are logical creatures (females are emotional), and that being the case, our mind will give us logical reasons not to approach to keep us safe, to keep us comfortable, and will put our comfort above our happiness.
Why don’t women approach you?
Actually, why don’t women approach MEN? Some do. But most women don’t. And the type of woman who is attractive and has a lot of guys after her will usually approach even less. I’ll explain why…and then give you a big twist at the end…
But before we dive in, a quick HEADS-UP – if you’ve recently been through a breakup get the Breakup Survival Guide for Men immediately. It’s not about being “strong” or “tough” – there are certain psychological and chemical processes that go on in a breakup. You need the tools to deal with these before you’ll be able to be at the top of your game. Check it out here:
Love Systems instructor Vercetti teaches clients how to get good with women fast.
A common question I’m asked is “How long did it take you to get good with women?” And while I'm unable to give a precise answer I am aware of the tools I used to get good quickly. I went through many frustrating nights coming home virtually in tears of frustration but it’s what I did in those moments that enabled me to take major steps and overcome my sticking points. One of the most useful tools I’ve used to accelerate my learning is Creative Visualization.
In Maxwell Maltz’ book Psycho Cybernetics – which I highly recommend - He basically talks about the use of Visualization to modify and improve your Self Image; it’s extremely powerful.
Here’s a list of 10 ways to improve your success with women, written by former Love Systems Instructor Soul. By implementing these, you will see big improvements in your overall life as well as in your success with women.
1. Stop reading all dating forums for two weeks. Bar yourself from reading, writing, or replying to any posts on any internet dating science forum. You will discover that time spent working on yourself is more valuable that arguing, debating or defending any aspect of dating science.