Bonsai, 5’6”, grew up in The Netherlands but had a strict Asian upbringing. He was exposed to both Asian and Western values, causing him to have conflicting beliefs when it came to dating and relationships.

While having a social life was a low priority because his parents forbade him from having a girlfriend till college graduation, he showed much interest in his education as well as an interest in business. At the age of 16 he started his first business and discovered his passion for entrepreneurship after reading a lot of self-help books.

 In his bilingual Dutch-English high school, Bonsai was the most introverted among his friends who were popular with girls. In his senior year in high school he had no date for prom. While he had plenty of female friends, it was because he always ended up in the friend zone. Whenever he would show interest in a girl, he would always hear "let's just be friends." He was your typical nice guy before he discovered Love Systems a few years later.

He moved to the US to go to college and pursue his entrepreneurial visions. In his first year in college, he never went out nor made many friends.  Out of frustration over falling into the friend zone with another girl he liked, he searched online for a solution to getting the girl he was interested in. In his desperate search for an answer, he stumbled upon Love Systems and started to learn the art of meeting women.  After reading Magic Bullets, he went out for a year straight practicing 3-4 days a week. This time he was determined to fix his dating life and to get a girlfriend by using the same drive he had as an entrepreneur chasing his dreams.

After attending the 2008 Super Conference Bonsai’s success drastically went up and he started to date multiple women. However, he only dated Asian girls because of his upbringing he believed he had to date within his own culture. In reality he was attracted to girls outside his own culture. He realized that it was all negative programming in his head and he started to get rid of these limiting beliefs. A few months later he was really living the life he always wanted where he had control which girls he wanted to date. Some of the women he has dated include a Playboy model, reality TV star, Hooters girls, bartenders, and exotic dancers. Bonsai is a firm believer anyone can be successful with beautiful women with the right determination and training. He is a prime example of a “nice guy” with an edge who can pick up and date beautiful women.

Another passion of Bonsai, besides teaching Love Systems, is traveling and learning about different cultures. He has traveled to more than twelve countries spanning three continents. This gives him the ability to understand and relate to students of different backgrounds, especially when it comes to dealing with dating within or outside their culture. He is also an expert on grooming, fashion and style. It is not uncommon for him to give students fashion advice and makeovers; transforming a shy guy to an attractive guy that leaves a positive and good first impression. Whether you want to change your style or get ready for a first date, Bonsai can help you with your fashion and style.

Bonsai dropped out of college to pursue his business interests and he now owns an online business. He also works at Love Systems as a marketing strategist. When Bonsai is not spreading the word on Love Systems, he is teaching it. When he is working with students he is solely focused on getting his students the results they want; whether that is dating multiple women, picking up exotic dancers, meeting women in the daytime, sleeping around in groups of friends/acquaintances, or taking a girl home from a bar/club. He wants to know what your goals are and he will show you how to achieve your goals.

Bonsai is available for personal 1-on-1 training and phone consultations. Fill in the form below to inquire about getting training with Bonsai. You can also contact Jeremy (program manager) at jeremy@lovesystems.com or call him at +1-800-680-0821 to get more information on training with Bonsai.

Testimonials

“Bonsai has such a great knowledge of game and applies it so effortlessly in both his demos & his teaching style!” – Kisser, former Love Systems instructor

“Bonsai gave me the best individualized feedback about my personal weaknesses in my game and how to improve. I think he is a great guy for a 1 on 1 (at least as good as Tenmagnet or Cajun).– Bombaybomber

“I especially wanted to thank Bonsai. You took my approach virginity, man! I'm gonna tell my grand kids about you!” – Troublesome

“Bonsai smacked a passing girl on the butt. She turned around and whacked her finger in his face with a smile. He gave her a pose back. Twenty seconds to start making out, right next to me! That beats all the YouTube videos with 10 minutes to first kiss or 1 minute to phone number.” -- Lord Byron101

“Bonsai is beyond what anyone would expect, out of all the Love systems people at the course, I defiantly found the most commonality with him during my sarging experience. He provides the ice to the others fire, with a chill composed personality, which shows his sympathetic side, especially with those that choke up with AA (Approach anxiety). Like a skilled fencer his game is focused, yet he wields his game with great grace and agility (especially to catch those moving sets!) and draws down on his specific target with the same focus. Style archetype: Icy cool.” – Zahavor

“He has such an easy going, down to earth vibe that it just comes across as a smooth confidence. That was inspiring. Bonsai gave me a ton of personal attention. Between the seminar and field session he even hung out with me in my hotel room and helped me pick out my outfit and rehearse openers.” – Draww

“Bonsai came up with a great routine that at first I thought wouldn’t work, but got amazing results when I tried it. It’s funny how a lot of things in Love Systems seem counter-intuitive, but work well in the real world.” – DMC64

 “You give me hope and inspiration.” – Drhowie

Read more reviews of dating coach Bonsai. You can also follow him on Twitter (LS_Bonsai), his Facebook fan page, or read his blog Asian Dating Coach.

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