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The Ultimate Guide to Text and Phone Game finally reveals the secret techniques used by the most successful pickup artists to consistently get beautiful women's phone numbers - and turn them into dates and sex.
Magic Bullets is the number one ebook download to help men date or seduce beautiful women.
The Love Systems Routines Manual Volume 2 is the long-awaited sequel to the groundbreaking original Love Systems Routines Manual.
The Love Systems Routines Manual by Savoy and The Don is an indispensable tool for men who want a method to take the mystery out of dating or seducing beautiful women.
The Love Systems Triad is a powerful system to develop sexual or romantic relationships with beautiful women, even if you're not rich, famous, or good-looking yourself. It is based on real-world experience from hundreds of thousands of "approaches" and "pickups" - both through "cold approach" (approaching women you don't know) and "social circle" (friends, co-workers, etc.). Have I approached hundreds of thousands of women? Of course not. But I do have the good fortune of having a team of over twenty Love Systems instructors worldwide, and a broader network of thousands of clients who we've taught in person. By constantly testing and refining ideas, we've evolved a system that works regardless of a man's age, culture, or background. It's based on what actually works in the real world - it has to be, because it's what we use ourselves.
by Cajun
Inner game is probably one of the most misunderstood concepts in dating science. It's a major sticking point for nearly everyone who has trouble talking to women and it's a problem that can be difficult to fix as well, since it tends to be rooted in a lifetime's worth of negative beliefs that are based on things like fear and rejection. Inner game is also a topic that I think can only be discussed from a personal level, that is, I can't convince you how to think or look at life differently - only you can do that - but I can tell you how I overcame the very same problems, and hope that you can learn from my experiences.
Read more: Inner Game – Dating advice by Love Systems.com (Formerly Mystery Method Corp.)
Routines and Routines Manual Conf. Call (Jan 2008)
During a recent visit to Los Angeles, Mr. M had an interesting experience with a top Playboy model and cover girl. It was entirely “cold approach” – no one introduced them. Here’s the story, as told by the man himself, Mr. M:
Do you want to take home a beautiful woman every night of Spring Break?
Hey guys – Savoy here. To celebrate this fun time of year, I've asked Braddock to put together some of his spring break pickup secrets. Read on to have the best spring break of your life and make it one you'll never forget!
Read more: Spring Break – Dating advice by Love Systems.com (Formerly Mystery Method Corp.)
Savoy discusses the strengths and weaknesses of different openers. Watch the videos here!
Read more: Savoy on Openers – Dating advice by Love Systems.com (Formerly Mystery Method Corp.)
by Soul
I've been meaning to write this post for a while, so apologies for the delay. Some of the below is a bit detailed and may be a lot to take in for guys new to Day Game. Don't worry if it is, just read the newbie note at the bottom, get out there and do a few sets, then come back and read the full article.
by Dahunter
I’m in Los Angeles right now, yet again, the time is 5:30 am and I can’t stop thinking right now. My mind is racing with so much information. This has been the most valuable information I’ve received since I took the Breakthrough Comfort seminar with Sinn and Future back in
by Rokker
One of the hardest things for new guys when it comes to cold approach is making conversations seem smooth and unstrained. This is especially true right after the opener, when you are about to turn the opener into a “normal conversation” (in other words, moving into the Attraction phase). This is nothing new, and both Sinn and Savoy have been dishing out stuff about this for awhile. There’s a great chapter in Magic Bullets for transitioning, and Sinn has posted a bit about transitioning both on his blog and on the forums.
by Moxie
Want to know the best way to get into a good state of mind for meeting women? The answer is to have fun!
The best way I find to get in state is by going out with a wingman and just have an awesome fun time! When I'm out with my wing we are always laughing and having fun and the women are just a natural progression of the night and it's not a big deal.
Read more: State Killers – Dating advice by Love Systems.com (Formerly Mystery Method Corp.)
by Savoy
How do you get beautiful women in your life?
Guys don't tend to talk about this stuff. Maybe once in a while your friend might tell you that your opening line was lame or that your clothes are out of style, but most men's lives are not full of messages and advice on how to succeed with women. There's no common male equivalent to women's magazines which are filled with articles like "How to get a guy!", "How to keep him!", and "How to rock his world!"
by The Don
A lot of students are confused about the reasoning behind the Qualification process. (If you don’t know what Qualification is, check out this refresher on the Emotional Progression Model from the Love Systems’ Publications Library). Some who blindly attempt to follow the model end up creating awkward moments by haphazardly throwing out qualification questions at the wrong moment without understanding the purpose behind them.
by Badboy
Society influences us in countless ways, sex being just one of them, to become better sheep and to serve our society complacently. A big part of this control is brainwashing people, making them sad and frustrated. Why? Because, you can't control happy people. If you are happy you won't buy things, you won't search for help, and you won't search for happiness. As long as you are frustrated, as long as you think about problems, and as long as you think you are full of problems, you will work to make money and purchase more things to buy your happiness.
by Badboy
Most guys believe that 9s and 10s are super hard to get and that for them you need to have ultra-strong game. This is not true. While the game you play on those women is different, it's not inherently easier or harder.
Read more: Picking Up 9s And 10s – Dating advice by Love Systems.com (Formerly Mystery Method Corp.)
by Rokker
Success with women is a skill. Like any other skill, it takes practice, dedication, and time to master. However, there are some things that can speed up the process of getting good. One of them is the ability to create motivational boosts, and to harness their power in your own development.
Read more: Motivational Boosts – Dating advice by Love Systems.com (Formerly Mystery Method Corp.)
by Sinn
This is mostly dedicated to the guy who stopped me at a bar on the lower east side of New York City and asked me for advice, while dressed like a refuge from an 80s Michael Jackson video, and told me that he "had been going out for over a year with really low results."
Read more: Don't Be Weird – Dating advice by Love Systems.com (Formerly Mystery Method Corp.)
by Rokker
Getting a woman into a private conversation is a crucial waypoint in every interaction. It's vital that you do, but still I see guys in workshops and 1-on-1s not pushing for it. This makes the interaction much harder than it needs to be.
Read more: Getting Her Alone – Dating advice by Love Systems.com (Formerly Mystery Method Corp.)
by Dahunter
This is a question I got from a live workshop student and I'm answering it here with his permission.
Dahunter, It's XX from the recent LA workshop(you know, the guy who people kept opening because they thought I was my brother who's on TV). So I've been practicing like crazy ever since the event, and I'm really beginning to develop my own style. I remember that you were especially skilled at immediately transitioning from an opener to banter/qualifying. I was really impressed with how you were already qualifying with them within the first 5 seconds.<
by Sinn
The answer to this question actually has very little to do with how much experience you have with women. All of the Love Systems guys are great at analyzing where a guy needs help and in what situations he is going to succeed. So, whether you are a virgin or have been with 6, 7, or 800 women in your life we can help you achieve your goals.
by Tenmagnet
Ever wonder what people are thinking about you?
Do you ever see a group of people chattering and laughing, and wonder if they're talking about you? Then, do you wonder whether they're saying good or bad things about you?
Read more: The Video Camera – Dating advice by Love Systems.com (Formerly Mystery Method Corp.)
by Rokker
What's really cool about learning game is that you realize that you have to have other things going for you in your life in order to be truly successful. There is no "magic line" or routine that will get you a woman; they are simply tools to convey your personality and identity.
Read more: The Quick Fix – Dating advice by Love Systems.com (Formerly Mystery Method Corp.)
by Dahunter
While in the comfort phase, you don't want to tease in order to punish a woman for bad behavior, simply because it's a waste of time and it's going backwards in the process. You will start to banter, which leads to a playfully fighting vibe. This is the complete opposite of what you want once you are in comfort. In comfort you want to make her say to herself, "where was this guy all my life?"
by Sinn
I want to talk about the mistakes that most people make while approaching.
Most guys will approach a woman and then try running a routine of some sort or a story used to show off some positive qualities. This is very wrong. There is a structure to approaching that took me a while to be able to articulate.
Read more: How To Approach – Dating advice by Love Systems.com (Formerly Mystery Method Corp.)
by Tenmagnet
I get the impression that a lot of guys out there are doing decently well at getting phone numbers and building attraction, but are getting a lot of flaking after acquiring the phone number. This challenge is to help you guys improve your phone game so that you're able to turn your phone numbers into dates.
Read more: Phone Game – Dating advice by Love Systems.com (Formerly Mystery Method Corp.)
by Savoy
How do make a woman into your girlfriend? While I can't solve this issue in one article, I'll give the best starting point that I can for it.
It is both easier and harder to make a woman into your girlfriend than it is to date her casually. Because monogamous relationships are the dominant relationship type in our society, women will often assume that this is where your relationship is going unless either of you say or do something to imply otherwise.
by Rokker
The Theory
Have you ever thought about why some people who have been in this community for a really long time still can't approach women correctly? Ever wondered what separates one guy's constant improvement from another guy's struggle? Well, it really boils down to one thing: how well you incorporate your experience from what happens in-field to your skill set.
by Dahunter
It's a fact that when you want something from a woman it will automatically sub-communicate lower value and that you need her. Here is a very handy and easy technique I use whenever I'm getting something from a woman.
Read more: Distractors – Dating advice by Love Systems.com (Formerly Mystery Method Corp.)
by Sheriff
Here are some brief thoughts on how you can show disinterest without looking like you're being overly reactive.
Just as there are different levels of showing interest and approval, there are different levels of disinterest and disapproval. "You're a bitch and a cock-tease" is a very strong one, and something like that's going to come across as pretty reactionary! Disinterest that makes you look bitter is out of proportion and shows that you're having an emotional reaction to her. So what can you do?
by Dahunter
There's no way around it. If you want a specific woman real badly, you won't get her. Why? Maybe it's because nature has a cruel sense of humor, but the important thing is that this is nature, and that is a rule.
Read more: Desire = Lower Value – Dating advice by Love Systems.com (Formerly Mystery Method Corp.)
by Dahunter
I've heard a lot around the community about "being in state" and "being all pumped up." I've even read about guys who play music just to get themselves into a state of mind where they can talk to other people.
To me that's about as ridiculous as it can get.
by Tenmagnet
A lot of guys ask me the question "is it okay for me to buy her a drink?" It's actually a controversial subject among guys who teach others how to meet women. Some people will say "never," because it makes you look supplicant, or needy, while others say you should always do it.
Personally, I don't think it's a big deal.
Read more: Buying Drinks – Dating advice by Love Systems.com (Formerly Mystery Method Corp.)
by Tenmagnet
As you guys probably know, we talk a lot here about three "Attraction Switches," which are the core traits that women find attractive in men.
The three switches are:
1. Preselected by women
2. Leader of men
3. Protector of loved ones
I've been thinking about this for a while, and I think we should consider adding a fourth attraction switch: Successful Risk-Taker.
Read more: Be A Risk-Taker – Dating advice by Love Systems.com (Formerly Mystery Method Corp.)
by Rokker
People join this community for a lot of different reasons. Regardless if yours is a painful break-up, to get more high-quality women in your life, or simply a desire to have more sex, you should have a goal and purpose with this journey. Some people have a hard time explaining their goals... they aren't really sure why they are doing this or at least they can't verbalize it. Others have it all figured out and blatantly state: "I'm going to be the best pickup artist ever!"
Read more: Reaching Your Goals – Dating advice by LoveSystems.com (Formerly Mystery Method Corp.)
by Rokker
One problem I see at every live workshop, almost every 1-on-1, and whenever I meet someone in the community, is that men are very good at coming up with excuses why not to improve their game. Huh? Don't they want to improve their game? Of course they do! It's just that they come up with excuses all the time why not to approach, why not to go out that night, why everything is stacked against them, why they'll never be good at game... and thus find excuses why not to improve their game. If you can stop making excuses and focus your attention towards what you want to achieve instead of finding reasons why you won't reach that goal, you are almost guaranteed success.
by Masters
The purpose of rapport is to make a woman feel like you two are soul mates, like she has known you forever. When it happens fast, you'll hear the following from her: "Oh my God, I don't know why I'm telling you this, I don't even know you!"
Read more: Creating Rapport – Dating advice by Love Systems.com (Formerly Mystery Method Corp.)
by Badboy
Everyone knows how important inner game is, but have you ever stopped to ask yourself what inner game actually is? Is it simply when you've memorized material very well or maybe when you've perfected the delivery of your voice?
Actually, inner game is based on confidence, beliefs, and your overall attitude about life. Whether you realize it or not, your attitude is constantly projected to the women you talk to. If you have a strong, assertive, and positive attitude, women will naturally be attracted to you. That's how most naturals get women. They develop these three aspects of their identity: confidence, beliefs, and attitude. When this happens, they begin to feel more confident and they start to behave like they're the prize, which is exactly what attracts women.
by Mr. M
The Importance Of Qualification
Many students at bootcamps get completely caught up on approaching and attracting girls. While these are crucial steps, understanding qualification and the value of setting a qualifying context to the interaction is absolutely crucial not only for successfully getting a woman, but also for getting better with women generally. All very successful pickup artists and naturals I know use qualification extremely well.
by Future
When we go out and teach live workshops, we see a lot of sticking points over and over again. One of the foremost of these is the lack of volume in a student or amateur pickup artist's voice.
Weekend after weekend, students shoot themselves in the feet because their targets cannot hear the material. You can be the best pickup artist in the world, but if she can't hear you, your chances drop dramatically.
Read more: Be Louder – Dating advice by Love Systems.com (Formerly Mystery Method Corp.)
by Fader
Being reactive will kill your game.
Life is a lot like chess. We always think that we are making the best move (who would make the worse of two moves?), so generally it's not the move that's really wrong (that's just a symptom), it's the thought process that led to the move (the action). This is why two people could use Love Systems material and yet won't have the same results. It's not the material, it's the thought process that lets us know when to deliver what material and how (in chess it would be what move to make and when).
Read more: On Being Non-Reactive – Dating advice by Love Systems.com (Formerly Mystery Method Corp.)
by Fader
As always the best routines come from real life experiences. This is a question that actually came up in a conversation and as soon as it happened I knew it would make a great opener. I used it for the rest of the night.
Read more: E.T. Opener – Dating advice by Love Systems.com (Formerly Mystery Method Corp.)
by Cajun
Gather around everyone, it's time for Acting 101: Subtext!
What is subtext? In the acting world, subtext is the underlying meaning behind spoken words as interpreted by an actor. What does that mean? Basically, you're adding additional meaning to your spoken words by the way you say them. I'll give you an example.
by Cajun
Ah make-up, the best friend and worst enemy of a potential pickup artist. Those with the courage and state of mind strong enough to wear it get female attention like no other. Those who don't yet wear it anyway get chewed up by other men.
But do not fret fellow pickup artists! There is a happy medium!
Read more: Using Eye-Liner – Dating advice by Love Systems.com (Formerly Mystery Method Corp.)
by Braddock
When I first entered the dating community I was excited, and not because I was fooling myself by hoping to find a few magic lines that would trick women into liking me. I was excited because I finally felt like it was in my control, for the first time in my life, to determine the quality (and amount) of women that would be in my life. Up until that point I felt like it was completely up to chance, God, or luck. It had nothing to do with me.
Read more: Refuse To Be A Victim – Dating advice by Love Systems.com (Formerly Mystery Method Corp.)
by Braddock
Here are some issues that often plague the beginner, and can really hold someone back if they're not addressed. I suffered from these myself, and once I dealt with them I felt like my game went to a whole new level, and I had much more fun going out and practicing.
Read more: Change Your Life – Love Systems.com (Formerly Mystery Method Corp.)
Breaking the Cycle
by Sinn
Virginia Satir once said that the most basic human instinct is not toward survival, but toward the familiar. In other words, the thing that we are most likely to do is rarely concerned with our survival (or procreation). It's just the thing we are most comfortable doing.
Read more: Breaking the Cycle Lovesystems.com (Formerly Mystery Method Corp.)
by Sinn
I've been doing a lot of reading on psychology and spirituality recently and I've developed an idea that's reduced my approach anxiety by about 90%.
The idea is surrendering to the moment.
Read more: Surrender to the Moment Lovesystems.com (Formerly Mystery Method Corp.)
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