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Love Systems Triad

The Triad Model is the new definitive framework for interactions from beginning to end. This is the next evolutionary leap after the Emotional Progression Model, and has been tested and proven by Love Systems instructors around the world. Download the Triad Model now!

Routines Manual Volume 2 Sample Pack

Download the free sample pack, which includes the full Table of Contents, Introduction, Attraction - Intro, and Chapter 9: Physical Progression, Reviews

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Inner Game

by Cajun

Inner game is probably one of the most misunderstood concepts in dating science. It's a major sticking point for nearly everyone who has trouble talking to women and it's a problem that can be difficult to fix as well, since it tends to be rooted in a lifetime's worth of negative beliefs that are based on things like fear and rejection. Inner game is also a topic that I think can only be discussed from a personal level, that is, I can't convince you how to think or look at life differently - only you can do that - but I can tell you how I overcame the very same problems, and hope that you can learn from my experiences.

Routines Manual Volume 1.1 Sample Pack

Download the free sample pack, which includes the full Table of Contents, Introduction, Reviews and Testimonials, and Chapter 2: Openers!

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TSB Magazine Announces The Top 10 PUAs of 2008

What Do Six Of The Top Ten
Pick Up Artists In The World Have in Common?

Spring Break

Do you want to take home a beautiful woman every night of Spring Break?

Hey guys – Savoy here. To celebrate this fun time of year, I've asked Braddock to put together some of his spring break pickup secrets. Read on to have the best spring break of your life and make it one you'll never forget!

The Differences Between Day And Night Game

by Soul

I've been meaning to write this post for a while, so apologies for the delay. Some of the below is a bit detailed and may be a lot to take in for guys new to Day Game. Don't worry if it is, just read the newbie note at the bottom, get out there and do a few sets, then come back and read the full article.

Routines and Routines Manual Conference Call

Routines and Routines Manual Conf. Call (Jan 2008)

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Conference Call and Q&A

Feb. 2008 Conference Call and Q&A (with Brad P. and Thundercat)

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Love Systems Instructor Mr.M Seduces Playboy Playmate

During a recent visit to Los Angeles, Mr. M had an interesting experience with a top Playboy model and cover girl. It was entirely “cold approach” – no one introduced them. Here’s the story, as told by the man himself, Mr. M.

Savoy on Relationship Management

Savoy teaches the guys at Pickup Podcast about relationships and relationship management here.

Savoy on Openers

Savoy discusses the strengths and weaknesses of different openers. Watch the videos here!

The Definitive Guide to Social Circle Game

by Dahunter

I’m in Los Angeles right now, yet again, the time is 5:30 am and I can’t stop thinking right now. My mind is racing with so much information. This has been the most valuable information I’ve received since I took the Breakthrough Comfort seminar with Sinn and Future back in Chicago. This time, however, the information was given to me by a dude that came completely under the radar after the first impression. So I walk into the seminar room, and I see Sheriff who I already knew and I see this short Asian dude who does not look like a Love Systems instructor at all (again, this is first impression): this dude is known as Mr. M.

Observational Transitioning with Examples

by Rokker

One of the hardest things for new guys when it comes to cold approach is making conversations seem smooth and unstrained. This is especially true right after the opener, when you are about to turn the opener into a “normal conversation” (in other words, moving into the Attraction phase). This is nothing new, and both Sinn and Savoy have been dishing out stuff about this for awhile. There’s a great chapter in Magic Bullets for transitioning, and Sinn has posted a bit about transitioning both on his blog and on the forums.

State Killers

by Moxie

Want to know the best way to get into a good state of mind for meeting women? The answer is to have fun!

The best way I find to get in state is by going out with a wingman and just have an awesome fun time! When I'm out with my wing we are always laughing and having fun and the women are just a natural progression of the night and it's not a big deal.

Attract Beautiful Women Using "Smartphone Game"

by Savoy

How do you get beautiful women in your life?

Guys don't tend to talk about this stuff. Maybe once in a while your friend might tell you that your opening line was lame or that your clothes are out of style, but most men's lives are not full of messages and advice on how to succeed with women. There's no common male equivalent to women's magazines which are filled with articles like "How to get a guy!", "How to keep him!", and "How to rock his world!"

Statements of Interest

by The Don

A lot of students are confused about the reasoning behind the Qualification process. (If you don’t know what Qualification is, check out this refresher on the Emotional Progression Model from the Love Systems’ Publications Library). Some who blindly attempt to follow the model end up creating awkward moments by haphazardly throwing out qualification questions at the wrong moment without understanding the purpose behind them.

Sex Sells... Everything

by Badboy

Society influences us in countless ways, sex being just one of them, to become better sheep and to serve our society complacently. A big part of this control is brainwashing people, making them sad and frustrated. Why? Because, you can't control happy people. If you are happy you won't buy things, you won't search for help, and you won't search for happiness. As long as you are frustrated, as long as you think about problems, and as long as you think you are full of problems, you will work to make money and purchase more things to buy your happiness.

Picking Up 9s And 10s

by Badboy

Most guys believe that 9s and 10s are super hard to get and that for them you need to have ultra-strong game. This is not true. While the game you play on those women is different, it's not inherently easier or harder.

Motivational Boosts

by Rokker

Success with women is a skill. Like any other skill, it takes practice, dedication, and time to master. However, there are some things that can speed up the process of getting good. One of them is the ability to create motivational boosts, and to harness their power in your own development.

Don't Be Weird

by Sinn

This is mostly dedicated to the guy who stopped me at a bar on the lower east side of New York City and asked me for advice, while dressed like a refuge from an 80s Michael Jackson video, and told me that he "had been going out for over a year with really low results."

Getting Her Alone

by Rokker

Getting a woman into a private conversation is a crucial waypoint in every interaction. It's vital that you do, but still I see guys in workshops and 1-on-1s not pushing for it. This makes the interaction much harder than it needs to be.

Deconstructing Attraction

by Dahunter

This is a question I got from a live workshop student and I'm answering it here with his permission.

Dahunter,
It's XX from the recent LA workshop(you know, the guy who people kept opening because they thought I was my brother who's on TV). So I've been practicing like crazy ever since the event, and I'm really beginning to develop my own style. I remember that you were especially skilled at immediately transitioning from an opener to banter/qualifying. I was really impressed with how you were already qualifying with them within the first 5 seconds. Read more: Deconstructing Attraction

Can A Live Workshop Help Me?

by Sinn
The answer to this question actually has very little to do with how much experience you have with women. All of the Love Systems guys are great at analyzing where a guy needs help and in what situations he is going to succeed. So, whether you are a virgin or have been with 6, 7, or 800 women in your life we can help you achieve your goals.
Read more: Can A Live Workshop Help Me?

The Video Camera

by Tenmagnet
Ever wonder what people are thinking about you?
Do you ever see a group of people chattering and laughing, and wonder if they're talking about you? Then, do you wonder whether they're saying good or bad things about you?
Read more: The Video Camera

The Quick Fix

by Rokker
What's really cool about learning game is that you realize that you have to have other things going for you in your life in order to be truly successful. There is no "magic line" or routine that will get you a woman; they are simply tools to convey your personality and identity.
Read more: The Quick Fix

Anatomy of Behavior Modification

by Dahunter
While in the comfort phase, you don't want to tease in order to punish a woman for bad behavior, simply because it's a waste of time and it's going backwards in the process. You will start to banter, which leads to a playfully fighting vibe. This is the complete opposite of what you want once you are in comfort. In comfort you want to make her say to herself, "where was this guy all my life?"
Read more: Anatomy of Behavior Modification

How To Approach

by Sinn
I want to talk about the mistakes that most people make while approaching.
Most guys will approach a woman and then try running a routine of some sort or a story used to show off some positive qualities. This is very wrong. There is a structure to approaching that took me a while to be able to articulate.
Read more: How To Approach

Phone Game

by Tenmagnet
I get the impression that a lot of guys out there are doing decently well at getting phone numbers and building attraction, but are getting a lot of flaking after acquiring the phone number. This challenge is to help you guys improve your phone game so that you're able to turn your phone numbers into dates.
Read more: Phone Game

How To Make Her Your Girlfriend

by Savoy
How do make a woman into your girlfriend? While I can't solve this issue in one article, I'll give the best starting point that I can for it.
It is both easier and harder to make a woman into your girlfriend than it is to date her casually. Because monogamous relationships are the dominant relationship type in our society, women will often assume that this is where your relationship is going unless either of you say or do something to imply otherwise.
Read more: How To Make Her Your Girlfriend

Analyzing Approaches And Building Your Skills

by Rokker
The Theory
Have you ever thought about why some people who have been in this community for a really long time still can't approach women correctly? Ever wondered what separates one guy's constant improvement from another guy's struggle? Well, it really boils down to one thing: how well you incorporate your experience from what happens in-field to your skill set.
Read more: Analyzing Approaches And Building Your Skills

Distractors

by Dahunter
It's a fact that when you want something from a woman it will automatically sub-communicate lower value and that you need her. Here is a very handy and easy technique I use whenever I'm getting something from a woman.
Read more: Distractors

Not Appearing Reactive When Showing Disinterest

by Sheriff
Here are some brief thoughts on how you can show disinterest without looking like you're being overly reactive.
Just as there are different levels of showing interest and approval, there are different levels of disinterest and disapproval. "You're a bitch and a cock-tease" is a very strong one, and something like that is going to come across as pretty reactionary! Disinterest that makes you look bitter is out of proportion and shows that you're having an emotional reaction to her. So what can you do?
Read more: Not Appearing Reactive When Showing Disinterest

Desire = Lower Value

by Dahunter
There's no way around it. If you want a specific woman real badly, you won't get her. Why? Maybe it's because nature has a cruel sense of humor, but the important thing is that this is nature, and that is a rule.
Read more: Desire = Lower Value

The Fallacy of "Being In State"

by Dahunter
I've heard a lot around the community about "being in state" and "being all pumped up." I've even read about guys who play music just to get themselves into a state of mind where they can talk to other people.
To me that's about as ridiculous as it can get.
Read more: The Fallacy of "Being In State"

Buying Drinks

by Tenmagnet
A lot of guys ask me the question "is it okay for me to buy her a drink?" It's actually a controversial subject among guys who teach others how to meet women. Some people will say "never," because it makes you look supplicant, or needy, while others say you should always do it.
Personally, I don't think it's a big deal.
Read more: Buying Drinks

Be A Risk-Taker

by Tenmagnet
As you guys probably know, we talk a lot here about three "Attraction Switches," which are the core traits that women find attractive in men.
The three switches are:
    1. Preselected by women
    2. Leader of men
    3. Protector of loved ones

I've been thinking about this for a while, and I think we should consider adding a fourth attraction switch: Successful Risk-Taker.
Read more: Be A Risk-Taker

Reaching Your Goals

by Rokker
People join this community for a lot of different reasons. Regardless if yours is a painful break-up, to get more high-quality women in your life, or simply a desire to have more sex, you should have a goal and purpose with this journey. Some people have a hard time explaining their goals... they aren't really sure why they are doing this or at least they can't verbalize it. Others have it all figured out and blatantly state: "I'm going to be the best pickup artist ever!"
Read more: Reaching Your Goals

Excuses... Get Rid Of Them!

by Rokker
One problem I see at every live workshop, almost every 1-on-1, and whenever I meet someone in the community, is that men are very good at coming up with excuses why not to improve their game. Huh? Don't they want to improve their game? Of course they do! It's just that they come up with excuses all the time why not to approach, why not to go out that night, why everything is stacked against them, why they'll never be good at game... and thus find excuses why not to improve their game. If you can stop making excuses and focus your attention towards what you want to achieve instead of finding reasons why you won't reach that goal, you are almost guaranteed success.
Read more: Excuses... Get Rid Of Them!

Creating Rapport

by Masters
The purpose of rapport is to make a woman feel like you two are soul mates, like she has known you forever. When it happens fast, you'll hear the following from her: "Oh my God, I don't know why I'm telling you this, I don't even know you!"
Read more: Creating Rapport

Confidence and Leadership

by Badboy
We all know how important inner game is, but have you ever stopped to ask yourself what inner game actually is? Is it simply when I memorized material very well or maybe when I perfected the delivery of my voice?
Actually, inner game is based on confidence, beliefs, and your overall attitude about life. Whether you realize it or not, your attitude is constantly projected to the women you talk to. If you have a strong, assertive, and positive attitude, women will naturally be attracted to you. That's how most naturals get women. They develop these three aspects of their identity: confidence, beliefs, and attitude. When this happens, they begin to feel more confident and they start to behave like they're the prize, which is exactly what attracts women.
Read more: Confidence and Leadership

Guide to Qualification

by Mr. M
The Importance Of Qualification
Many students at bootcamps get completely caught up on approaching and attracting girls. While these are crucial steps, understanding qualification and the value of setting a qualifying context to the interaction is absolutely crucial not only for successfully getting a woman, but also for getting better with women generally. All very successful pickup artists and naturals I know use qualification extremely well.
Read more: Guide to Qualification

Be Louder

by Future
When we go out and teach live workshops, we see a lot of sticking points over and over again. One of the foremost of these is the lack of volume in a student or amateur pickup artist's voice.
Weekend after weekend, students shoot themselves in the feet because their targets cannot hear the material. You can be the best pickup artist in the world, but if she can't hear you, your chances drop dramatically.
Read more: Be Louder

On Being Non-Reactive

by Fader
Being reactive will kill your game.
Life is a lot like chess. We always think that we are making the best move (who would make the worse of two moves?), so generally it is not the move that is really wrong (that's just a symptom), it's the thought process that led to the move (the action). This is why two people could use Love Systems material and yet won't have the same results. It's not the material, it's the thought process that lets us know when to deliver what material and how (in chess it would be what move to make and when).
Read more: On Being Non-Reactive

Magic Bullets Sample Pack

Download the free sample pack
(Reviews and Testimonials, Table of Contents, Preface and Introduction, Chapter 1, Chapter 4, Chapter 5, Chapter 6, Chapter 24, and Chapter 25)

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E.T. Opener

by Fader
As always the best routines come from real life experiences. This is a question that actually came up in a conversation and as soon as it happened I knew it would make a great opener. I used it for the rest of the night.
Read more: E.T. Opener

Subtext (How To Be Interesting)

by Cajun
Gather around everyone, it's time for Acting 101: Subtext!
What is subtext? In the acting world, subtext is the underlying meaning behind spoken words as interpreted by an actor. What does that mean? Basically, you're adding additional meaning to your spoken words by the way you say them. I'll give you an example.
Read more: Subtext (How To Be Interesting)

Using Eye-Liner

by Cajun
Ah make-up, the best friend and worst enemy of a potential pickup artist. Those with the courage and state of mind strong enough to wear it get female attention like no other. Those who don't yet wear it anyway get chewed up by other men.
But do not fret fellow pickup artists! There is a happy medium!
Read more: Using Eye-Liner

Refuse To Be A Victim

by Braddock
When I first entered the dating community I was excited, and not because I was fooling myself by hoping to find a few magic lines that would trick women into liking me. I was excited because I finally felt like it was in my control, for the first time in my life, to determine the quality (and amount) of women that would be in my life. Up until that point I felt like it was completely up to chance, God, or luck. It had nothing to do with me.
Read more: Refuse To Be A Victim

Change Your Life

by Braddock
Here are some issues that often plague the beginner, and can really hold someone back if they're not addressed. I suffered from these myself, and once I dealt with them I felt like my game went to a whole new level, and I had much more fun going out and practicing.
Read more: Change Your Life

Breaking the Cycle

by Sinn
Virginia Satir once said that the most basic human instinct is not toward survival, but toward the familiar. In other words, the thing that we are most likely to do is rarely concerned with our survival (or procreation). It's just the thing we are most comfortable doing.
Read more: Breaking the Cycle

Emotional Progression Model

You see an attractive woman at a restaurant. Or maybe you're introduced to her at a party. What do you do now? If you're like most men, you don't have a plan beyond "get to know her" or "start talking to her and see what happens." But as for what you actually do, the possibilities are endless.

Read more: Emotional Progression Model

Surrender to the Moment

by Sinn
I've been doing a lot of reading on psychology and spirituality recently and I've developed an idea that's reduced my approach anxiety by about 90%.
The idea is surrendering to the moment.
Read more: Surrender to the Moment

What really happens on a 1-on-1?

What really happens on a one-on-one?

We get this question so much, I thought I would post about it. Or at least post a link about it :)
Read more: What really happens on a 1-on-1?

Lawrence Leung learns from Pick Up Artist Savoy on Choose Your Own Adventure

Enjoy this video of Pick Up Artist / Dating Coach Nick Savoy helping Lawrence Leung find his dream girl on the Australian show “Choose Your Own Adventure.
Read more: Lawrence Leung learns from Pick Up Artist Savoy on Choose Your Own Adventure

Dates	Program Type	Location	Availability	Lead Instructor(s)	Price	Deposit
Jul 10 - 12	Bootcamp	San Francisco	1 seat left	Fader	$ 2,997	$ 999
Jul 10 - 12	Bootcamp	London	2 seats left	Mr. M	$ 2,997	$ 999
Jul 10	Day Game Workshop	Austin	2 seats left	Soul	$ 1,495	$ 747
Jul 10 - 12	Bootcamp	Montreal- Jazz Festival Weekend	2 seats left	Cajun & Future & Tenmagnet	$ 2,997	$ 999
Jul 17	Day Game Workshop	Miami	4 seats left	Soul	$ 1,495	$ 747
Jul 18	Inner Game	Los Angeles	5 seats left	Braddock	$ 1,197	$ 1,197
Jul 18	Social Circle Mastery	London	5 seats left	Mr. M	$ 947	$ 947
Jul 19	Social Circle Mastery	Los Angeles	5 seats left	Braddock	$ 947	$ 947
Jul 19	Inner Game	London	5 seats left	Mr. M	$ 1,197	$ 1,197
Jul 19	Strippers and Hired Guns	Los Angeles	5 seats left	Braddock & The Don	$ 947	$ 947
Jul 24 - 26	Bootcamp	New York	Seminar Only	Fader	$ 2,997	$ 999
Jul 24 - 26	Bootcamp	Los Angeles	4 seats left	Cajun & Tenmagnet	$ 2,997	$ 999
Jul 24	Day Game Workshop	New York	7 seats left	Soul	$ 1,495	$ 747
Jul 24 - 26	Bootcamp	Hong Kong	8 seats left	Mr. M	$ 2,997	$ 999
Jul 31 - 2	Bootcamp	Singapore	8 seats left	Mr. M	$ 2,997	$ 999
Jul 31 - 2	Bootcamp	Toronto	8 seats left	Braddock	$ 2,997	$ 999
Jul 31 - 2	Bootcamp	Orlando	3 seats left	Cajun & Tenmagnet	$ 2,997	$ 999
Aug 3	Day Game Workshop	Singapore	6 seats left	Soul	$ 1,495	$ 747
Aug 7	Day Game Workshop	Sydney	7 seats left	Soul	$ 1,495	$ 747
Aug 8	Inner Game	Sydney	8 seats left	Braddock & Mr. M	$ 1,197	$ 1,197
Aug 9	Social Circle Mastery	Sydney	8 seats left	Braddock & Mr. M	$ 947	$ 947
Aug 14 - 16	Bootcamp	New York	8 seats left	The Don	$ 2,997	$ 999
Aug 14 - 16	Bootcamp	Melbourne	8 seats left	Braddock & Mr. M	$ 2,997	$ 999
Aug 15 - 16	Advanced Bootcamp	Playboy Mansion (Los Angeles)	8 seats left	Savoy	$ 3,997	$ 999
Aug 21 - 23	Bootcamp	Oslo	8 seats left	Mr. M	$ 2,997	$ 999
Aug 21 - 23	Bootcamp	Chicago	8 seats left	The Don	$ 2,997	$ 999
Aug 28 - 30	Bootcamp	Seattle	3 seats left	Fader	$ 2,997	$ 999
Aug 28 - 30	Bootcamp	Dublin	8 seats left	Mr. M	$ 2,997	$ 999
Sep 4 - 6	Bootcamp	Washington DC	8 seats left	Mr. M	$ 2,997	$ 999
Sep 11 - 13	Bootcamp	Calgary	1 seat left	Tenmagnet	$ 2,997	$ 999
Sep 11 - 13	Bootcamp	Scottsdale	4 seats left	Fader	$ 2,997	$ 999
Sep 24	Inner Game	New York	8 seats left	Braddock	$ 1,197	$ 1,197
Sep 25 - 27	Bootcamp	Vancouver	3 seats left	Tenmagnet	$ 2,997	$ 999
Sep 25 - 27	Bootcamp	Munich	8 seats left	Mr. M	$ 2,997	$ 999
Sep 28	Social Circle Mastery	New York	8 seats left	Braddock	$ 947	$ 947
Sep 28	Strippers and Hired Guns	New York	8 seats left	Braddock	$ 947	$ 947
Oct 8	Inner Game	Las Vegas	Seminar Only	Braddock & Mr. M	$ 947	$ 947
Oct 8	Head Start	Las Vegas	Seminar Only	Special	$ 547	$ 547
Oct 9 - 11	Superconference- Gold Level	Las Vegas	8 seats left	Special	$ 3,797	$ 949
Oct 9 - 11	Superconference- Silver Level	Las Vegas	8 seats left	Special	$ 947	$ 947
Oct 12	Day Game Workshop	Las Vegas	Seminar Only	Soul	$ 1,495	$ 747
Oct 12	Social Circle Mastery	Las Vegas	Seminar Only	Braddock & Mr. M	$ 947	$ 947
Oct 13	Breakthrough Comfort	Las Vegas	Seminar Only	Future	$ 547	$ 547
Oct 13	Strippers and Hired Guns	Las Vegas	Seminar Only	Braddock & The Don	$ 947	$ 947
Oct 30 - 1	Bootcamp	Manchester (UK)	8 seats left	Mr. M	$ 2,997	$ 999

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