You’ve probably heard that 93% of all communication is nonverbal. That means how you say something is more than 14 times more important than what you say. With those impressive stats, it's time to take a look at what your body language is saying to the women you're (attempting to) work your magic on. For a head-to-toe analysis of what message your stance is sending, we hit up Love Systems instructor Nick Savoy, who offered up seven tweaks that can up your chances of acing the initial conversation.
So, you’re attracted to one of your female friends. Play your cards right, and everything will work out. Screw it up, and you could be in for a lifetime of embarrassment–or even need a new circle of friends. Dating expert Nick Savoy of Love Systems is here to help with five crucial dos and don'ts.
Dates are the worst place for things to go wrong. If you walk up to a woman at a bar and she isn’t interested, well, no big deal. You’ve lost 15 seconds. But if you talk to the same woman for a few hours (instead of other women), follow up with phone and text chat, and then invest a few hours in the date, you’ve already invested a lot in her.
You meet an amazing woman. You work your magic. She’s liking it, and working hers on you. Sparks fly. You exchange phone number …and then you never see her again. Why?
So, she dumped you. We’ve all been there. But while some guys get right back on their feet, others seem to be stuck in a tailspin for months. Well, we want you to be the guy who gets right back out there. That's why we tapped Nick Savoy, the author of the Magic Bullets Handbook and a master instructor with Love Systems, for five tips on how to bounce back fast.
If you’re good at texting—especially flirting through text—you’re going to have more success with women. We’ve already done an intro on how to text women so today let’s flip things around and cover what not to text.
Worried about coming off as creepy when conversing with the girl you've got your eye on? Try these opening lines…instead of whatever you were going to say.
Most men want some sexual variety. It’s in our biology. A common dilemma for guys is whether to be in an exclusive relationship with the woman they’re dating or stick to one-night stands and friends with benefits. Most men think that having a great relationship and dating multiple women is impossible. At least, not without sneaking around.
Some guys have their best success with women while traveling. Others never meet anyone. Like most things in the dating world, the men who succeed are the ones who know the right things to do and then get off their butts to go do them. To be a winner in love when you’re off traveling, try these four tips:
Let’s face it: For most guys, if you’re interested in a woman enough to pursue her, ask her out, and take her on a date, then you’re probably interested enough to want to take things in a physical direction, too. So, how do you make sure the night ends with fun in your bed instead of a hug on her doorstep? Nick Savoy, publisher of Date! The Proven Handbook for Men is here to supply some tips.