I'M A DATING COACH WITH LOVE SYSTEMS. That means my job is to show men how to meet and attract beautiful women—even women “out of their league.” It also means that I’ve met a lot of women and seen a lot of relationships start and fail. Here’s my Top 10 list of the worst women to date or try to date:
Being successful with women is as much about what you don’t do as what you do. In other words, your personality might be amazingly attractive to women. But no one would know it, if one of these seven “game killers” is standing in your way.
A lot of guys think that most women don’t want a friends-with-benefits situation. That’s completely wrong. Most women will enjoy a friends-with-benefits situation with the right man, as long as she knows that’s what you want and she feels that it is her choice.
A lot of guys think it’s not real–but it is: There are classes men can take to get better at meeting, attracting, and, yes, seducing beautiful women. They’re guaranteed and, judging from the success stories, they work. Problem is, they’re not cheap, and seats fill up fast. So we asked Nick Savoy, president of Love Systems, a dating-coach company, to stop by for a quick lesson on securing a one-night stand without coming off as a creep—or waking up attached.
It’s not just a myth. There is often a trade-off between looks and personality with a woman—and the hotter she is, the more likely it is that parts of her personality will trouble you.Sure, there are exceptions. But many attractive women have been treated differently their whole lives. Between alternately being adored, resented, objectified, singled out and judged—and often even rewarded by many men for princessy behavior in the past.
If you’re not currently using your social media to gain an edge in your dating life, you’re fighting with one arm tied behind your back. Men who know what they’re doing online have a huge advantage over their peers (read: competition), and the gap is only going to widen as more services and apps are released. These simple social-media dating tips will help boost your game—without you coming off as a weird, app-obsessed geekhead.
Nick is President and Program Leader of Love Systems. He’s been on Dr Phil and The Tyra Banks show. I first discovered Nick after he rebuilt the primary company mentioned in New York Bestseller The Game. A lot of what he teaches took me away from being unable to talk to women.
There’s nothing more embarrassing than an epic sexting (sexual text message) fail. But you can’t run away and hide and refuse to ever talk dirty on your phone again. Well, you can, but you’re going to lose a lot of opportunities with women who think you’re a cold fish or have no game.
You hung out with her a couple of times. Things were going well. Then you find out she’s dating somebody else—a guy who doesn’t seem to have anything you don’t. What the heck happened? For answers, we went to the expert—Love Systems instructor Nick Savoy. He has trained over 10,000 men to successfully date “out of their league” and demolished common dating myths that hold men back.
Savoy is the author of Magic Bullets, a comprehensive E-Book manual for anybody aspiring to be a great seducer of women or even for men wanting to pair up with the type of woman they really fancy. He's one of the Master Pickup Artists mentioned in Neil Strauss's book The Game*. Savoy has studied under and worked with many of the other 'masters' Strauss mentions and he seems to have demystified the whole process of attracting women. We tracked him down in LA and managed to squeeze this comprehensive interview out of him.