You noticed her as soon as you walked in. So did everyone else. She’s hot, she’s the center of attention and she knows it. Most guys will write her off. They figure they don’t have a chance anyway, so they don’t approach her—at least not without having drunk a few glasses of liquid courage. They protect their ego by saying that she’s probably just a bitch or isn’t their type.
It's a question we've pondered since junior high: Why do assholes get all the girls? Turns out, it’s not that women are masochists and want men to treat them badly. Some are, but most women have very good reasons to reject nice guys.
As a dating coach with Love Systems, my job is to help men meet and attract the women they want. The method is extremely effective (for proof, watch the hidden camera video), and things are usually pretty straightforward.
Are you making these little-known mistakes while trying to date a girl? Dating coach Chris Sheperd from tenmagnet.com talks to Richard Dagenais. Watch this video to hear Chris Sheperd aka (Tenmagnet) explain these 5 dating mistakes.
Everyone is talking about Tinder, the dating app for your phone, these days. The concept is simple. How it works: you upload some pictures and a few words about yourself, set age and distance parameters for potential mates, and away you go! You’ll be presented with a massive number of women’s pictures. Swipe right for yes, left for no. If you both say yes, you can message each other through the app, exchange phone numbers and go from there.
One thing I’ve noticed across over 10,000 clients is that dates are actually the worst place to screw things up. If you mess up when you first approach a woman, you’ve lost 15 seconds and maybe bruised your ego. If things don’t go well on a date, you’ve lost the time and money from the date itself, from the first time you met her, and all of the phoning and texting in between. Fail early, not late. To that end, I’d like to share these nine dumb things not to do on a first date. These tips won’t get you the girl on their own, but they’ll stop you from sinking your own ship unnecessarily.
Part of my job as a Love Systems dating coach is to take men out of bars, clubs and coffee shops and show them how to meet and attract beautiful women. Sometimes I point out specific women for clients to approach. The first time I ask a client to talk to a woman who has other men with her, I always get the same reaction:
Cancel the flowers. Get off her Facebook page. Delete your apology email. If you got dumped and want her back, follow this no-nonsense seven-step plan. It comes from the experts at Love Systems, so you know it’s real-world dating advice that’s been tested over and over. But for another perspective, compare these tips to our earlier get-your-ex-back guide.
There are lots of ways to make yourself more attractive to women. Most guys think of hitting the gym or upgrading their style. These things help, though most important is your personality--or, more accurately, how well you can break the ice, break through her barriers, and flirt in a way that she finds compelling.