One thing I’ve noticed across over 10,000 clients is that dates are actually the worst place to screw things up. If you mess up when you first approach a woman, you’ve lost 15 seconds and maybe bruised your ego. If things don’t go well on a date, you’ve lost the time and money from the date itself, from the first time you met her, and all of the phoning and texting in between. Fail early, not late. To that end, I’d like to share these nine dumb things not to do on a first date. These tips won’t get you the girl on their own, but they’ll stop you from sinking your own ship unnecessarily.
Part of my job as a Love Systems dating coach is to take men out of bars, clubs and coffee shops and show them how to meet and attract beautiful women. Sometimes I point out specific women for clients to approach. The first time I ask a client to talk to a woman who has other men with her, I always get the same reaction:
Cancel the flowers. Get off her Facebook page. Delete your apology email. If you got dumped and want her back, follow this no-nonsense seven-step plan. It comes from the experts at Love Systems, so you know it’s real-world dating advice that’s been tested over and over. But for another perspective, compare these tips to our earlier get-your-ex-back guide.
There are lots of ways to make yourself more attractive to women. Most guys think of hitting the gym or upgrading their style. These things help, though most important is your personality--or, more accurately, how well you can break the ice, break through her barriers, and flirt in a way that she finds compelling.
When I tell guys that I am a dating coach for Love Systems and that I help men meet and attract women, the first question I usually get is: “What’s your best pick-up line?”
I'M A DATING COACH WITH LOVE SYSTEMS. That means my job is to show men how to meet and attract beautiful women—even women “out of their league.” It also means that I’ve met a lot of women and seen a lot of relationships start and fail. Here’s my Top 10 list of the worst women to date or try to date:
Being successful with women is as much about what you don’t do as what you do. In other words, your personality might be amazingly attractive to women. But no one would know it, if one of these seven “game killers” is standing in your way.
A lot of guys think that most women don’t want a friends-with-benefits situation. That’s completely wrong. Most women will enjoy a friends-with-benefits situation with the right man, as long as she knows that’s what you want and she feels that it is her choice.
A lot of guys think it’s not real–but it is: There are classes men can take to get better at meeting, attracting, and, yes, seducing beautiful women. They’re guaranteed and, judging from the success stories, they work. Problem is, they’re not cheap, and seats fill up fast. So we asked Nick Savoy, president of Love Systems, a dating-coach company, to stop by for a quick lesson on securing a one-night stand without coming off as a creep—or waking up attached.
It’s not just a myth. There is often a trade-off between looks and personality with a woman—and the hotter she is, the more likely it is that parts of her personality will trouble you.Sure, there are exceptions. But many attractive women have been treated differently their whole lives. Between alternately being adored, resented, objectified, singled out and judged—and often even rewarded by many men for princessy behavior in the past.