If you’ve been in a coma for the last year, I have some updates for you. The Super Bowl was played outside...in the cold. A big commercial airplane took off…and disappeared. And Tinder has taken over a big chunk of the dating world.
You work out like an animal. You get your rest. You eat clean. You’re a man who's in good shape, and you’re looking for the same in a woman.
Whether you’re looking for a vacation romance, some excitement on a business trip, or even an opportunity to join the mile high club, traveling gives you lots of opportunities to meet and attract women—if you know what to do.
When guys find out that my job is to coach men how to attract and date beautiful or “out of their league” women, the first question I usually get is: “What’s the secret?” They want the magic bullet. But that’s not how attraction works.
Nick Savoy, lead instructor for Love Systems, is a professional pick-up artist. Really, training men on the science of picking up women is his job. So, we turned to Savoy to answer our most pressing question: What’s the average guy doing wrong?
For better or worse, technology changes the dating world—fast—and when it does, you just have to roll with it. If you meet women online, you already know what I’m talking about here, but even if you don’t, how you use technology will have a big impact—positive or negative—on your dating success.
Last week, Love Systems' Nick Savoy give us his Seven Dating Rules for the Digital Age. This week, we asked Savoy to cover the other side: old-fashioned rules for meeting and attracting women that still work today. Because sometimes you’re not online, or don’t have your phone, or there just happens to be a gorgeous woman walking by, and if you don’t have some “old school” game, you’re going to miss your chance.
You noticed her as soon as you walked in. So did everyone else. She’s hot, she’s the center of attention and she knows it. Most guys will write her off. They figure they don’t have a chance anyway, so they don’t approach her—at least not without having drunk a few glasses of liquid courage. They protect their ego by saying that she’s probably just a bitch or isn’t their type.
It's a question we've pondered since junior high: Why do assholes get all the girls? Turns out, it’s not that women are masochists and want men to treat them badly. Some are, but most women have very good reasons to reject nice guys.
As a dating coach with Love Systems, my job is to help men meet and attract the women they want. The method is extremely effective (for proof, watch the hidden camera video), and things are usually pretty straightforward.