It's a fact that when you want something from a woman it will automatically sub-communicate lower value and that you need her. Here is a very handy and easy technique I use whenever I'm getting something from a woman. In this article, we're going to talke about how to get women to want you and make sure she shows up to the first date, etc.
To solve this problem we use distractors whenever we want to get something from a woman. This is something I use in phone game and text message game especially. So let's say your goal is to get her to come out with you. The average guy will say:
- "Hey let's go out."
- "We should hang out."
- "Come with me to X."
And the thing is, all of these are okay, except that you need to add a distractor afterwards. No woman wants to say "yes" without adding more to the sentence because it will make her feel uncomfortable (bad comfort game). So, we want to add something and make it like this:
- "Hey, let's go out, but you gotta buy me a present; I'm high maintenance."
- "We should hang out. I'm at the gym right now so I can only hang out after 8."
- "Come with me to X. Just so you know, if you're friends with me you have to love white wine, otherwise we wouldn't be able to hang out."
This takes away the pressure of saying yes, and she can even deny the distractor but still agree to the activity. "Oh no, I'm not buying you a present; I'm broke" means she can still say no to something in the sentence and say yes to the real purpose.
The same theory applies when you say something like "I like you." That can make a woman uncomfortable, but if you add "too bad you're such a dork" to it, it becomes easier for her to respond because it's not so serious or heavy. Remember, we want to stay away from heavy vibes and be playful!
You want to be the guy that tells women not be so stressed out. In fact, I have a tease that goes "Why are you so tense? You're such a dork!" (said in a playful way), that works great.
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