No more hokey marketing gimmicks and carefully edited TV shows!
Who wants to change their abilities with women and dating FOREVER?
Become social, attract women, and change your f**king life.
We know why you're here.
We know you're seeking a change.
We know you want a LIFE CHANGING EXPERIENCE with the best and the brightest in the field of pickup, the kind that clicks in your head and brings you lasting
positive changes.
It's the kind of stuff that will be with you forever.
This kind of training comes not from just anybody, but from highly-trained Love Systems Master Instructors.
We know you're not looking for just any seminar.
You want not only the best information available, but also the best LIVE IN-FIELD TRAINING to implement it.
You will receive 25-30 hours of INTENSIVE study and training over a weekend with the world's top
pickup artists.
We'll put you through the wringer, blow your mind with paradigm shifts, and open up entire new corridors of thought to realign you with your goals.
Whatever your abilities are, we have the skills to bring you to a WHOLE NEW LEVEL.
You'll learn everything from how to attract beautiful women in any situation to how to find and get the type of long-term girlfriend you want.
Many of you know that we carry with us a solid foundation, a sophisticated model for understanding pickup inside and out, from start to finish. While
taking bootcamps, you will be gaining access to the newest pickup magic as well. All the ideas, concepts, techniques, and tactics that you won't find in any
other product, and which are not publicly available, get passed directly to YOU. You'll get not just the RAW information, but a competent and informed
instructor to communicate it clearly and efficiently to you, showing you the nuances that can't be learned in any other way than through direct
experience.
Now consider this: we match our words with our actions.
Not only do we teach the system, but with the live portion of the bootcamp we put our money where our mouth is and DEMONSTRATE LIVE, approaching REAL TARGETS
in the REAL WORLD, even ones you pick out for us, right before your eyes.
That way you can see it actually working, instead of just reading it in someone's theory.
In these unscripted interactions with multiple beautiful women, Love Systems is put to the test every night we take our students out into the field.
Just imagine the confidence we have in our Instructors and methods: not only do we lay it on the line for you, but we build our reputation through client
testimonials.
We prove that it works time and time again, and we'll show you how it can work for YOU.
You can see now that our bootcamps aren't just some boring lectures you'll struggle to take anything away from; in fact, our bootcamps
consist of two separate components:
1)
The Seminar
2)
The Workshop
The bootcamp is a live program, taught in person. It's unfortunate that many brilliant subtleties
cannot be expressed in text, no matter how great the author. You wouldn't try to learn martial arts from just reading a book – you need to learn the
theory and practice somewhere safe, and then go into the arena and see how you measure up. Our arena is clubs, bars, restaurants and lounges, and our
instructors are there every step of the way with you. We will teach you to be expressive, peacock, naturally approach, open groups (with men in them), act
enthusiastically, and know what to say and how to say it.
You can only mentally rehearse with your eyes closed so much before you have to get on the road.
To sign up for a bootcamp right now, contact Jeremy in our office at jeremy@lovesystems.com or call 800.680.0821 or 323.836.0150!
For a complete list of our upcoming bootcamps see the program schedule at the bottom of this page or here.
The Seminar is the building block for all Love Systems programs - including our advanced and specialty programs. In an intense but informal environment with a small group of students
and instructors (usually no more than 8-10 students), Master Instructors provide comprehensive training in Love Systems using lectures, demonstrations, and
interactive participation. In approximately 20 hours of daytime instruction, you will learn a comprehensive toolkit that can be used in a variety of social
situations to befriend or attract and seduce complete strangers. This seminar does not presuppose prior knowledge of Love Systems, but even for those
familiar with our techniques or online posts will find almost all of the material presented to be new and original.
The bootcamp is not remedial life coaching. Almost all of our students tend to be cool guys who generally have their lives together, and who are looking
either to improve in this one area, get more options, or work towards mastery. Previous students have included minor celebrities and multimillionaires. You
don't have to be a celebrity to fit in, but you should have a career, solid goals, friends you enjoy, hobbies, and some interests in the world beyond dating
science. That's the kind of raw material we can work with.
The Seminar takes place in a professional, comfortable setting, usually a hotel conference room, over the course of a weekend and includes all three days.
The Seminar can be taken separately as well, though most people choose to take it as part of the bootcamp. If time, money, or age (you need to be legal age for bars and lounges to go to the workshop)
prevent you from attending the full bootcamp, you can attend the seminar by itself for $950. The money-back guarantee also applies to the seminar-only option, just as we guarantee every single Love Systems product and event, and
this includes 6 months of access to our private, members-only Lounge - off limits to anyone who has not taken a bootcamp with us.
A.
Day 1 (2pm - 7pm)
1)
Structure
Understanding structure is crucial. Many students come to our program with a variety of ideas and methods that they've used on women in
the past, with little sense of their proper organization. A particular story or technique may do wonders for you in one segment of your interaction with a
woman but fall flat - or make her run away - if used at a different point in the interaction. Using "The Emotional Progression model" from "Magic
Bullets" we teach you how and why different pieces work at different stages of the pickup. We also break the pickup down to manageable chunks.
For example, your first objective when seeing a social group which includes a woman in whom you are interested is not to sleep with her, but simply to open.
We teach you what opening is, how to know when it's time to open, and when you know that you've successfully opened - and can move into the next stage:
attraction. We do the same for attraction. And so on, for qualification, comfort, until we hit all of the phases. Now you'll have a plan and you know what to
do and why Love Systems works.
a)
The proper mindset, and how to practice the game.
b)
Letting go of outcome: how to handle approach anxiety and "rejection."
c)
The concept of solid game vs. Fool's Mate ("getting lucky").
d)
The structure of the pickup. (Diagrammed.)
e)
The 7 steps from meeting a woman to the beginning of a sexual relationship.
f)
How to isolate and extract the woman you want from her friends and the meeting location.
g)
The proper way to get phone numbers.
h)
Discovering that most numbers are actually flakes . . .and how to fix this issue.
i)
How to handle phone calls and dates.
2)
Approaching
How to approach - it looks easy but it's not. There are a lot of subtleties that go into this - and the first few seconds can make or break
the whole interaction. With years and years of experience teaching men around the world, we are familiar with most techniques and common successes or
failures and can elevate this stage of your game quickly.
a)
Using the 3-second rule to minimize fear.
b)
How to know when women are signaling you to approach.
c)
Common approaching mistakes.
d)
How not to telegraph fear, interest, or creepiness.
e)
How to unlock a group and engage them in conversation.
f)
Various openers: situational openers, canned openers, etc.
g)
How to make your own openers.
h)
Using False Time Constraints.
i)
How to use proper body language and tonality when approaching.
j)
How to open seated and moving sets.
k)
Differences between daytime and nighttime approaches.
B.
Day 2 (2pm - 7pm)
1)
Attraction
Attraction is not a choice. You can attract virtually any woman. Creating attraction does not mean you can begin a sexual relationship -
remember, this is still just phase 2 - but we show you how consistently easy it can be with practice. Turning the right "switches" in a woman's
emotional circuitry will create attraction every time - even if a woman is out with her friends, significant other, or not looking to meet someone.
a)
The characteristics of an Attractive Male: how to BE attractive.
b)
Understanding and systematically turning on her attraction switches.
c)
How to master story-telling.
d)
Demonstrating Higher Value: How to quickly create powerful attraction.
e)
Using Neg Theory to disarm targets and create attraction.
f)
Conveying sexuality without sexual neediness.
g)
Indicators of Interest (IOIs): What they are and how to test for them.
h)
Solving Incongruence: How to make other people's proven material sound like your own.
i)
Take-aways: Creating a fear of loss to make her realize she is attracted to you.
j)
Using "Lock-In" props.
k)
How to use Body Rocking and False Disqualifiers to make the target chase you.
l)
The power of enthusiasm: It's contagious! How to elicit the emotion in others.
m)
How to develop trust, desire, sexual tension, and intrigue.
2)
Group Theory
Since women of particular beauty and high social status are rarely found alone, Love Systems incorporates methods for attracting them from
within their own peer groups. Approaching women who are only alone reduces your opportunities considerably as well as your power to attract them.
a)
Understanding and using Social Proof.
b)
How to befriend (disarm) your target's peer group to establish peer approval.
c)
Holding Court in a group: Cutting threads and using Multiple Conversational Threads.
d)
Merging groups for social power: Forward and Backward Merging.
e)
Various game plans: singles, 2-sets, groups, and merged groups.
f)
Advanced Social Dynamics: How to isolate your target from her peers.
g)
How to approach mixed-sets (groups with women and men).
h)
Dealing with Alpha Males in social situations.
i)
Various blocking and entry maneuvers for various sets.
j)
Pawning: How to increase your social value to attract the hottest women.
k)
Using Jealousy Plots and Drama to amplify responses.
l)
The power of enthusiasm: It's contagious! How to elicit the emotion in others.
3)
Qualification
Stage 3 of the Love Systems model is qualification. After you have opened the group and created attraction, you need the woman you are interested
in to work to obtain your interest. Skipping this step does not work, and results in a lot of failures that confuse men today. If you've ever been in a
situation where you've said "she was so into me, and then all of a sudden - nothing" it's likely because you failed to qualify. You didn't present
enough of a challenge or give her a believable reason - other than her looks - why you are interested in her. Don't fall into this trap!
a)
How to disarm a beautiful woman's sexual power with Active Disinterest.
b)
Hoop Theory: Controlling the Frame of the interaction.
c)
Using the Bait/Hook/Reel/Release model.
d)
The right way to convey interest in her - and the right time.
e)
How to make your target feel that she has won you over.
f)
Compliments: How to give a woman compliments she will appreciate.
g)
How to approach mixed-sets (groups with women and men).
4)
Rapport, Comfort & Trust, and Intimacy
This is where the game is won or lost with women of exceptional quality. Don't skip the three stages of comfort, or you'll be perceived as
a "player."
a)
Establishing conversational rapport to create Comfort and Trust.
b)
Demonstrating vulnerability through "accidentally revealed" sensitivity.
c)
Exchanging commonalities - various effective routines.
d)
How to establish an emotional connection.
e)
The Punishment/Reward tactic and the power of Freeze-Outs.
f)
Transitioning from Comfort and Trust to Intimacy.
g)
The devastating "almost kiss" tactic: How to make a woman need you to kiss her.
h)
How to test if a woman is ready to be kissed.
i)
How to begin a make-out with her - And when to push her away.
5)
Routines
Have you ever been talking with a woman in whom you are interested, and "run out of things to say"? Or said the wrong thing?
We'll fix that problem once and for all on Day 2 of the seminar. We give you enough material to last over 10 hours of conversation - more than enough to
begin a sexual relationship (in fact, as we explain in the seminar, if you take significantly longer than 10 hours to get there, you are very likely to be
put in let's-just-be-friends zone). Below is an example of the types of routines and material we teach.
a)
The Photo Routine: Convey an hours worth of talk in one minute.
b)
The Digital Photo Routine: How to make out with a girl in under a minute.
c)
The Snatch Routine: A speed and dexterity demonstration routine - great for making her guy friends look up to you.
d)
The Spell of Attraction routine.
e)
The Anything Game.
f)
The Choose Gino gambit.
g)
The Peg System.
g)
The Question Game.
g)
Other field-tested routines. Sometimes different routines get substituted for the ones above depending on students' skills and
interests.
C.
Day 3 (2pm - 7pm)
1)
Image & Identity
Love Systems is designed for the most attractive and exceptional women. Our experience is that you cannot get - or if you can get, you
cannot hold - such a woman unless you have a coherent, convincing identity that is on one hand interesting and exciting to your ideal woman, and on the other
hand, congruent with you really are. Women can smell incongruence a mile away, so part of image-building is reality - you may need to change your lifestyle
to attract the woman you want. Until then, we teach you to fake it 'til you make it, and we teach you - when you do make it - how to convey it.
a)
Building a powerful, congruent identity - and conveying it effectively.
b)
Your Image: personalized fashion consultation.
c)
Creating a Grounding Routine, personalized to your identity.
d)
Peacock Theory: How to demonstrate confidence through clothing.
2)
Seduction
Seduction is where you absolutely do not want to fail, after you've put in a few hours to pass through the three phases of attraction and
the three phases of comfort. If you lose here, you have to start again with someone else. Learn to approach this step with confidence and a mastery of proven
techniques. Has an interaction or date with a woman ever been totally "on" until you get to the point where it would escalate - but doesn't?
Resolve now to banish that problem forever. Day 3 of the seminar will be the first day of your new skill.
a)
How to isolate from "comfort location" to "seduction" location.
b)
Re-establishing comfort in the seduction location.
c)
Overcoming Last Minute Resistance: Various effective tactics.
d)
First-time sex methods to ensure a second time.
3)
Guest Speakers
In one of our consistently most popular modules, a top Love Systems instructor will speak on an area of expertise.
4)
Questions & Answers
A free-form discussion that relates to specific issues or concerns of individual students.
II.
The Workshop
A Love Systems workshop is utterly unique. The workshop is comprised of two basic elements: demonstration and practice.
Demonstration is crucial. If you don't know what "good" looks like, then you won't know how to model it. Everything from body language, to
sequencing, to tonality, to social intuition can be broken down, copied, and integrated in your own style. You will see us approach and meet beautiful women
and demonstrate techniques for your benefit. You will have the opportunity to watch (or even be in the same social group) and to ask specific questions about
each interaction afterward.
Practice is the flip slide of the coin. Trained and experienced Love Systems instructors will observe your interactions over the course of a night,
and give you solid, practical, and usable feedback. We don't sugar-coat our advice - we don't have time to do that and to teach you everything you need to
know. Over two nights, we will go from observing your "natural" or pre-existing game to coaching you as you integrate different elements
of Love Systems into your style and personality. By the end of the program, you should know exactly where you are succeeding and failing, and what
you need to do for the next few weeks. And you won't be doing alone - you'll have joined the Love Systems community, and will have access - through
the Lounge - to talented instructors and former students. Share your experiences, help others, and seek advice. We're all in this together.
In going out with the Love Systems instructors, we will teach the difference between our method and individual instructors' style. The System is
something we all follow - and consists of a structure and set of powerful techniques and principles. This is something we all share. However, the style
of each individual instructor is unique to him, as yours should be unique to you. You will see a variety of unique styles that each instructor has
individually put together to express his personality and identity. Our job is not to create clones, but to convey your unique personality and identity.
There is no set curriculum for the workshop. We try to keep it flexible and responsive to what we see that individual students need. Because we keep a small
student-instructor ratio (usually no more than 2.5-1 and often significantly less), the available spots fill up fast.
A.
Day 1: Demonstration Night (Evening)
Before we go out (or when we arrive at the venue), we will go over how to watch a master in the field, and what to look for. We have developed innovative
ways that you can observe a pickup in progress, from start to finish, without contaminating the interaction. In some interactions, an experienced instructor
will even give you a play-by-play as to exactly what is happening in another instructor's set, and, more importantly, why it is happening. Past students have
observed, for example, successful pickups of supermodels, well-known actresses, and threesomes. Although highly entertaining in itself ("worth the price
of admission," according to a recent testimonial), this is done for a purpose - our experience has shown that students who have observed masters in
action learn quicker and develop fewer bad habits than those who do not. Don't let the fun and entertainment distract you from the main purpose.
The first night may be intimidating. Many who are not familiar with Love Systems often are surprised and thrown off-balance by the demonstration of
what is possible. Have you ever seen a man walk up to a group of 5 men and 1 stunning woman, isolate that woman from her group (with the approval and
encouragement of her male friends) within 5 minutes, and eventually leave with her alone? You probably have - and you probably assumed that the man in
question knew the group beforehand. Here's a secret: he probably didn't. He was just using (whether he knew it or not), the techniques of Love Systems. But
here's where it gets special - all of the instructors were once students (and we treat all students as if we are training them to be instructors... we have
to, or where would our future instructors come from?). So, anything they can do, you can do. How do we know this? Because they were once in your shoes.
Practice and learn, and you can be in theirs.
The second night is also the most individualized. We begin with all students running sets - alone, with other students, or with instructors. Over the
course of the night, different instructors will watch you to get you on course for the next step in your game - practicing. We'll help you understand what
the most important elements are for you and where you need to go next.
By this point in the bootcamp, you should have enough of an understanding of social dynamics and Love Systems to be able to watch other students
critically - and other men "in the game" at the venue. Doing this with an instructor is a great way to accelerate your learning process - if you
are able to see strengths and weaknesses in another man's game, you will not only be a great wingman, but you will also be better able to see those same
positives and negatives in your own development.
B.
Day 2: Armed and Dangerous (Evening)
After the second day of the Seminar, you will be armed to the teeth with Love Systems structure, tactics, and techniques. Now it's time to put it
in play. This is the night when students build on their performance from the previous night and target more makeouts, dates, and "pulls" (going
home with a woman). Every student will be given personalized instruction and feedback on their game and how they are applying Love Systems.
This is the night when you will learn your first "sticking points" - where it is that things go wrong. We will work to overcome these, and
then as your game improves, the next ones will appear. This is a natural part of the learning process. We want to find areas where you have difficulty.
Improvement in the venusian arts has often been compared to a continuous process of resolving sticking points. In addition, the experience of running long
interactions with women and getting deeper into the 9 phases will give you new insight into the venusian arts. As such, we try to have a couple of
instructors continuing to demonstrate various techniques for your analysis and understanding.
And a couple of Frequently Asked Questions…
Q. I see that Qualification [or another topic] is only covered for one hour. How can you explain
that in one hour? It’s my biggest weakness and I want to make sure it will be addressed.
A. Don’t worry, there’s well more than one hour on Qualification. We specifically
discuss Qualification theory and routines for an hour on Saturday, but it is also addressed during the 8 hours of live workshop coaching as well as the hour
each day of review from the previous night. In fact, we have a combined 10 hours of each program to work specifically on whatever each individual
student needs to get to the next level. We keep things deliberately flexible and allow for so much individualized training to respond to each
students’ needs. So if you have issues with qualification, you’d better believe that that’s what most of your coaching will focus
on!
Q. What if I can’t be there for the whole seminar and have to miss a few hours?
A. Then don’t come. I’m serious. Bootcamps are a lot of fun (how often do you get
to learn from and party with some of the most successful men in the world – the guys who actually developed the principles and material that are being
taught?) but they’re not a vacation. It’s serious stuff, and if you can’t be 100% focused over the weekend, then come to a different
program. Or contact us about one-on-one
training (and tell us what city you’re in).
Q. Where does this all take place?
A. The seminar portion is usually held in a comfortable hotel conference room, so water, coffee,
notepads, audio/visual material, etc., is available. The workshop portion is in a local bar, club, restaurant, or lounge.
Q. It looks great but what if it’s not for me?
A. A full refund policy is at the heart of every product or service we develop. After the program
is over, if you don’t feel it was worth every cent, you get your money back.
"I know it sounds cliche, but I just came from 3 days that completely changed my life... What was amazing was that some of the sets actually told him [Mr. M] to more or less fuck off, but he persisted, and in the end, he actually ended up making out with a few of them. I personally was extremely impressed to see Mr. M, a 5'6" Asian dude (though he is jacked), making out with hot blondes using a direct approach... Oh, and you guys need to see 5.0 and Mr. M in the field, truly amazing, truly amazing. These are normal dudes who evolved into guys with unbelievable skills."
"Daxx was a really good coach and really helpful. Being around him and 5.0, I felt like I was energized and it was hard not to get caught up in their reality."
The Don was the lead instructor and I honestly believe that many of my teachers and professors throughout high school and college could learn alot from him. He handled the classroom with efficiency and ease and got through all of the material in good time. In the field I had major approach anxiety and he pushed me into approaching women and even came in and saved me from awkwardness a couple times. The ease in which he handles himself both in the class and in the field was really impressive.
(The Don is) the most natural of all the instructors, an alpha male with great bantering and role-playing skills. A little older (early 30s) which was good because he had a ton of real world experience to add to the theoretical stuff that he talked about during the day. Every question he had an answer for, and he seemed especially knowledgeable about relationship management. Real easy to wing with as well, I have a second date with a woman I approached with him the second night.
[Knoxville] was SUPER cool, with happy go lucky, great energy. I spent lots of one-on-one with him and had many fun interactions. It's so cool having a pro wingman because you realize that whatever comes up the guy knows how to handle it, who to disarm, giving you feedback. It was just fun.
This guy comes off very socially calibrated and has great charisma. Has a party vibe around other people, but will then later break down step-by-step what happened in a linear fashion.
"Soul: his focus on physicality was a real eye-opener. He'll make you realize how important it is if you want to build attraction. I was by no means the kind of guy who would get physical right away. He totally shattered my apprehension during the seminar, and I was amazed to see how positively women responded to my touch during the interactions. Wow! This thing was dynamite!"
"Soul demonstrates the most direct game I've ever seen anyone run. If nothing else, he showed me that it not only can work, it can work most of the time. His physical escalation stuff has to be seen, it cannot adequately be described through writing. His leg rubbed up against mine when we were in the taxi and it turned me on a little (turned on in a biblical sense, of course)."
Fantastic product. Nothing compares to what you will get out of going to a boot camp. Mr. M and Sheriff came through with some cutting edge game that I had never heard of in all of my reading. They put everything from the books into a whole new light.
You can't help but like Mr. M... He’s got an easy smile and like Sheriff is a MASTER. Mr. M showed me the nuances and details behind the stages like qualifying and body language. I can honestly say that without Mr. M I know that it would have taken me a LOT longer to grasp subtleties like how to convey higher quality through body language and how to deliver openers so that they are twice as effective! The best thing was that with Mr. M as your wingman, approaching women became FUN!! He’s such a master at this stuff… When I thought the interaction turned bad, he demonstrated how to turn it around and snatch victory from the jaws of disaster. He has the ability to spot the next area of development and guide you through it. Each approach with Mr. M I improved dramatically...
To sign up for a bootcamp right now, contact Jeremy in our office at jeremy@lovesystems.com or call 800.680.0821 or 323.836.0150!
For a complete list of our upcoming bootcamps see the program schedule below or here.