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How to Get Women - Twenty Five Tips

One of the newest and most popular sections of The Attraction Forums is called “Game FAQs.” It has a bunch of Frequently Asked Questions, with answers being restricted to two lines, maximum (usually including a hyperlink to a longer article). Here’s a selection of articles and links you find helpful. To see the full Game FAQ, click here.

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Feel Nervous About Approaching Women?

Here’s one thing that frustrates SO many guys…when they are getting better with women, but there’s that ONE ANNOYING THING that is holding them back. One of our former bootcamp clients said it was like being trained to be an Olympic athlete but having a pebble in your shoe…

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How to Pickup Girls - Approaching

A few things you need to remember is that women are very complex, emotionally driven creatures. For that reason, a good strategy for picking up women needs to include a variety of techniques to help her feel several emotions while she is interacting with you. Approaching women is only the firs.....

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Three Deadly Common Mistakes Men Make While Approaching Women

Let’s face facts…Dealing with beautiful women can be an absolute minefield! They think and feel differently than we do, and it can be super difficult to understand what is going on in their heads. The most frustrating thing is when you’re talking to a hottie, and for some unknown reason she goes cold and blows you out…I mean, WTF! It used to piss me off to no end! Then I discovered a couple of key things that changed the way I approached and as a result sky-rocketed my game.

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Interview with Cajun - As Seen on "Keys to the VIP"

Last Tuesday, Love Systems Master Instructor Cajun went onto reddit.com to do a live chat. As the former winner of Keys to the VIP, Cajun is one of the world’s most respected dating coaches today and his chat extended into the following day. For a general audience, the chat is at an introductory level, but so many have emailed to say how much it helped them, that we wanted to excerpt it here. Link to the full chat at the end.

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10 Deadly Secrets of Approaching (“Opening”)

If you follow my blog, you saw a post a couple weeks ago that is getting forwarded around a lot, called the “10 Deadly Secrets of Approaching”. We’ll start it off here but for reasons and space (and because a lot of guys have seen this already), we’ll cut it off after the first few and give you a link to read the whole thing.

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Ten Secrets to a Successful Approach

You see an attractive woman. You don’t know her. You have no “excuse” to talk to her. Can you walk up to her and start a conversation – the kind of conversation that’s going to lead to attraction and more? This is a skill any man can master. And one no man can afford to ignore – if you can’t comfortably talk to strangers, you’ve excluded 99.9% of the women whose path you’re going to cross in life.

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Six Objects Every Man Must Have While Approaching Women

One theme of our bootcamps and Day Game Workshops is to “control the controllables.” Some factors are outside of your control. I was taking home a very beautiful lingerie model from a friend’s party in Toronto when she literally fainted in the taxi. Instead of my hotel, we had a decidedly non-romantic night at the hospital. That was outside my control. Nothing I could have done about that.

On the other hand, I’ve had pickups go wrong because of things that WERE in my control – moreover, they were things that ANY man could have done, no matter what his skill level, and in fact could have and should have been taken care of before I even left my house. So, I made this list to share with you of 6 objects any man should have. These are things you can do BEFORE you go out that make your game better INSTANTLY. No excuses!

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Hot Women on Planes, Trains, and Automobiles

Subscribers to the interview series have already got this... ”Future” – voted the #1 pick up artist of the year in 2009 - revealed his special techniques for picking up beautiful women on subways, buses, airplanes, and so on. I’m not going to try to steal Future’s thunder – a tall order even if I tried – but when listening to the interview, I definitely found myself both nodding my head and taking notes as Future (and Pendrixx) dished some of their tips. I wanted to add a couple Big Rules of mine for picking up women on buses, planes, etc.

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How Approach Anxiety Really Works

Even though “Approaching” is only a small part of the Love Systems Triad Model, some guys say it’s their biggest challenge when they come to a PUA bootcamp... and are shocked when it’s no longer a problem.....

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