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Baller Mindsets for Success

Everything is hard before it is easy. Skill sets take time and practice to develop. When I first played basketball, I was nowhere as good as I am now. Mastery takes time, repetition and failure. Here are my favorite mindsets for playing the game of love. Note that just using one at a time will greatly help your results.

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How To Approach A Women Successfully In The Daytime – And Make An Impact

As we’ve discovered in the previous installments, women want to meet attractive men during the daytime. Since not many men approach women during the day, you can make a very strong impression if you can be the guy who does. But what makes up a good approach and how do we make the best impact possible?

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What do Valentine’s Day and “BJ Day” have in common?

Imagine there was a holiday designed with men in mind. Let's call it "BJ Day" where women show "appreciation" for the men in their lives. The media exhorts women to go all out, while men sit back and wait to see who they will be appreciated by (and how much, and how effectively, and whether it's as good as what your best friend got, and so on). Okay, you can take the smile off your face now. BJ Day doesn't exist. But if it did, would it really be all that different from Valentine's Day if the genders are reversed?

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Hootie Talks Body Language with Simple Pickup's Bijan

Simple B (Bijan) of Simple Pickup brought Hootie in to talk about his new book, Body Talk: The Definitive Guide on Body Language for Men, as well as other aspects of body language that men may be overlooking when attracting women.

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What Really Happens at a Love Systems Bootcamp? Phoenix Super Camp Live Tweet

Have you ever wondered what goes on at a Love Systems bootcamp? If you follow us on Twitter (@lovesystems), then you already know because two of Love Systems' top instructors, Vox (@LS_Vox on Twitter) and Dan Wildcard (@LS_DanWildcard on Twitter) live-Tweeted their Super Camp (Day Game and Night Game in one bootcamp) in Phoenix over the weekend. Here's what you missed:

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January 21, 2016

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Baller on a Budget: Real-Life Stories AND Lessons on Being Cheap

Flash here. We've covered some ideas for cheap dates before, but I want to give you ways to date on the cheap that aren't the same old museum, hang out at the beach, etc. Here are your ten tips to become a Baller on a Budget:

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What Works Great for Men on Valentine’s Day?

If you’re like me, Valentine’s Day can be pretty annoying. If you’re in a relationship, the media – and advertisers! – will try to persuade your wife or girlfriend to expect fairy-tale romance. If you’re single, women will wonder why you don’t have a girlfriend. But that's okay. We're going to use Valentine's Day to our advantage, whether you're casually dating someone or completely single.

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January 13, 2016

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How to have SWAG

Confidence is one of the keys to attracting women, but it is often difficult parts of game to attain. While one can learn to discuss mastery topics in a day (which we teach on bootcamps), confidence is something that is absorbed over a certain amount of time. For someone who has never had sex, it might seem daunting to begin a conversation, get a girl interested, get her to come out on a date or handle the pull so that you can get her home and have sex. Once we first begin to have sex with a number of partners, we realize that it is not difficult: our confidence in our abilities has risen.

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Getting Started In Day Game: How To Be Attractive To Women

One of the biggest questions and struggles guys have is how to appear attractive. What traits and characteristics make up an attractive guy and how are these communicated in the daytime? This is not an exhaustive list, but the 3 points below are important and will get you started on your journey to meeting beautiful women in the daytime.

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How Broke Guys Get Girls Pt. 2

The most important thing to realize is that you can control much of what you need to in order to become an attractive man. Your confidence can be built over a long period of successful interactions or through introspection of your previous accomplishments. Your sense of humor can be developed through practice. Fashion sense can be studied and cultivated. You can talk to everyone by choice. You do not need to be rich in order to do any of these things.

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