A Life of a Dating Coach Currently in San Francisco
I’m writing this blog as Jeremy Soul is sleeping next to me and whim is sleeping in his bedroom. It’s 9am and the day before we finished the Day Game workshop. This weekend I was staying at whim’s place with Jeremy to help out on the Day Game workshop.
Friday night after the office I went to LAX but I was a couple hours early only because I wanted to see the Lakers game. Unfortunately they lost big time and I immediately got a text from a girl (it’s actually the dancer I met at the LA Bootcamp last week, she is from Denver) how I should silence my mouth….ouch ;)
I sit at the gate for my flight to San Francisco. As I tweeted, there were no cute girls on my flight to SF. I truly believe airport terminals are a good representative how hot the girls are in a certain city and the quantity. SF is not really known for having good looking girls and that was reflected on my flight.
I arrive just after midnight, hop in a cab, and crash at whim. A lot of people think that the life of a dating coach is all fun and glory. Braddock wrote a post on a day of a dating coach. Well…it kind of is but it’s also a lot of hard work and sleepless nights. Most people don’t see that side. Not counting sometimes that you have to travel a lot (which is a plus) but you also don’t see your friends and family that much.
For me it’s mostly a lot of work and I’m fully immersed within Love Systems. During the week, I work at the office where I do the marketing. At night during the week, I work on my blog, respond to emails, work on LS related projects (like infield recording, writing, etc). Whenever there is a one-day seminar, bootcamp or Day Game workshop around California, I’m there. So sometimes I’ll be working 24/7 anything related to dating.
I realized that before I got into this. That’s why for me it’s really important to have focus outside of dating to keep myself balanced. Time with friends outside Love Systems and dating is really important to me. I want to be able to go out with my friends who know nothing about dating science. That’s why my social circle is very varied. That’s why it’s also very cool that Love Systems has a wide variety of instructors. We have Caucasian instructors, black (Vercetti), Asian (myself, Mr M, Jeremy Soul), and Hispanic (dahunter). If you ever wanted to work with someone of your own “race”, Love Systems has someone for you.
So yesterday we had a sold out workshop. It was me, Jeremy Soul, and Starlight leading the workshop. Plus we had approach coaches whim plus two guys who flew in from Utah. I see bright a future for these guys and they all did great. It was seriously one of the best day game workshops I’ve been part of so far. By the end of the day you could see everyone had a smile on their face and they walked with a swagger. Daddy is proud.
After the workshop we invited all the students for diner at Osha Thai. The food was seriously good. I also invited one guy I did a phone consultation with who is a venture capitalist. It was great meeting him in person and he had some great ideas how we could grow Love Systems. I was taking notes as I was picking his brain. I can’t wait to work out the ideas and start implementing them.
After diner Starlight, Jeremy Soul, and I all went back to whim’s place to rest up. We wanted to all go out after freshing up a little bit but that didn’t happen. After walking all day long and working with students we were too exhausted to go out.
(me drinking Thai beer)
Instead, we were watching California Pimp videos and trying to break down his game. In case you don’t know who California pimp is….he’s a genius. He’s a guy who films girls when they come over for a calendar shoot….or that’s what these girls think. The (legit) girls really think they are coming for a shoot but CP has different ideas. Of course the girls are really nervous as they are in a stranger’s apartment and he is filming everything. But CP is so pimp that he makes them feel really comfortable and he gets the girls to take their clothes really slowly. Then before you know it….the girl is going down on him.
What’s so fascinating is that his game 100% verbal. He doesn’t physically escalate at all but instead the girls are physically escalating ON HIM. So we all were watching a couple (pr0n) videos of how he does this and trying to break down his game. It’s really eye opening and it’s a totally different style of game. Karea, a well respected member of the Lounge, has a great break down of his game written down. Check it out on the Lounge if you have access.
There you have it. Four guys watching pr0n and studying game. It can’t get anymore efficient than that! After that we just were talking about different things like business, game, life in general and how we are all going Supernova this year. I am especially excited as I see awesome things ahead of me this year.
That brings us back to this Sunday morning. I have to take a shower, head off to SFO, drive to a friend’s place for Super Bowl (will barely make it for kick off!), and cheer for the Colts. Bonsai out.
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