Lovesystems Instructor Blog

The Love Systems (ex-Mystery Method Corp) media page is now slightly cleaner and more organized. It's still a giant work in progress, but we've uploaded lots and lots of stuff that was hanging around...TV appearances, magazine articles, newspaper features, etc.

Some of the most famous Love Systems appearances aren't in there for copyright reasons. Still, we're already up to 6 pages full of articles and links and videos and there's still a ton more to upload.

Enjoy!

http://www.lovesystems.com/in-the-media

Savoy Media, Posts

I’m writing this blog as Jeremy Soul is sleeping next to me and whim is sleeping in his bedroom. It’s 9am and the day before we finished the Day Game workshop. This weekend I was staying at whim’s place with Jeremy to help out on the Day Game workshop.

Friday night after the office I went to LAX but I was a couple hours early only because I wanted to see the Lakers game. Unfortunately they lost big time and I immediately got a text from a girl (it’s actually the dancer I met at the LA Bootcamp last week, she is from Denver) how I should silence my mouth….ouch ;)

I sit at the gate for my flight to San Francisco. As I tweeted, there were no cute girls on my flight to SF. I truly believe airport terminals are a good representative how hot the girls are in a certain city and the quantity. SF is not really known for having good looking girls and that was reflected on my flight.

I arrive just after midnight, hop in a cab, and crash at whim. A lot of people think that the life of a dating coach is all fun and glory. Braddock wrote a post on a day of a dating coach. Well…it kind of is but it’s also a lot of hard work and sleepless nights. Most people don’t see that side. Not counting sometimes that you have to travel a lot (which is a plus) but you also don’t see your friends and family that much.

For me it’s mostly a lot of work and I’m fully immersed within Love Systems. During the week, I work at the office where I do the marketing. At night during the week, I work on my blog, respond to emails, work on LS related projects (like infield recording, writing, etc). Whenever there is a one-day seminar, bootcamp or Day Game workshop around California, I’m there. So sometimes I’ll be working 24/7 anything related to dating.

I realized that before I got into this. That’s why for me it’s really important to have focus outside of dating to keep myself balanced. Time with friends outside Love Systems and dating is really important to me. I want to be able to go out with my friends who know nothing about dating science. That’s why my social circle is very varied. That’s why it’s also very cool that Love Systems has a wide variety of instructors. We have Caucasian instructors, black (Vercetti), Asian (myself, Mr M, Jeremy Soul), and Hispanic (dahunter). If you ever wanted to work with someone of your own “race”, Love Systems has someone for you.

So yesterday we had a sold out workshop. It was me, Jeremy Soul, and Starlight leading the workshop. Plus we had approach coaches whim plus two guys who flew in from Utah. I see bright a future for these guys and they all did great. It was seriously one of the best day game workshops I’ve been part of so far. By the end of the day you could see everyone had a smile on their face and they walked with a swagger. Daddy is proud.

After the workshop we invited all the students for diner at Osha Thai. The food was seriously good. I also invited one guy I did a phone consultation with who is a venture capitalist. It was great meeting him in person and he had some great ideas how we could grow Love Systems. I was taking notes as I was picking his brain. I can’t wait to work out the ideas and start implementing them.

After diner Starlight, Jeremy Soul, and I all went back to whim’s place to rest up. We wanted to all go out after freshing up a little bit but that didn’t happen. After walking all day long and working with students we were too exhausted to go out.

(me drinking Thai beer)

Instead, we were watching California Pimp videos and trying to break down his game. In case you don’t know who California pimp is….he’s a genius. He’s a guy who films girls when they come over for a calendar shoot….or that’s what these girls think. The (legit) girls really think they are coming for a shoot but CP has different ideas. Of course the girls are really nervous as they are in a stranger’s apartment and he is filming everything. But CP is so pimp that he makes them feel really comfortable and he gets the girls to take their clothes really slowly. Then before you know it….the girl is going down on him.

What’s so fascinating is that his game 100% verbal. He doesn’t physically escalate at all but instead the girls are physically escalating ON HIM. So we all were watching a couple (pr0n) videos of how he does this and trying to break down his game. It’s really eye opening and it’s a totally different style of game. Karea, a well respected member of the Lounge, has a great break down of his game written down. Check it out on the Lounge if you have access.

There you have it. Four guys watching pr0n and studying game. It can’t get anymore efficient than that! After that we just were talking about different things like business, game, life in general and how we are all going Supernova this year. I am especially excited as I see awesome things ahead of me this year.

That brings us back to this Sunday morning. I have to take a shower, head off to SFO, drive to a friend’s place for Super Bowl (will barely make it for kick off!), and cheer for the Colts. Bonsai out.

A Life of a Dating Coach Currently in San Francisco is a post from Bonsai - Asian Dating Coach

Related posts:

1. Chicago Day Game Workshop Oct 2009
2. Dating Coach Braddock On Flirting and Sending Mixed Signals
3. Another Round of LA Bootcamp Fun

Bonsai Posts, Workshop Adventures, day game, workshop

The first reviews of the Humor, Improv and Attraction Seminar are on the board!

Check it out and sign up for Chicago and/or LA or I will punch you in the balls.

The reviews are in! is a post from Big Business

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Big Business Posts, Uncategorized

So the past weekend was a bootcamp with The Don in Los Angeles. LA is housing a lot of instructors now:
-Pendrixx
-Daxx
-Dubbsy
-dahunter
-Braddock
-Savoy
-The Don
-Myself

That means one thing…..plenty of trouble :)

Everyone was there at the bootcamp except for Savoy and Braddock. We had a great group of guys. Everyone was eager to learn and had a great time kicking ass at the infield workshop. One guy had really good “couch game” because once he had a girl sitting on the couch with him….game over.

After the first night of infield I was still very energized. So what to do at 2am? You guessed it….hit up a strip club! So I took 3 guys with me and I would teach some basic stripper game. I got the phone number of one stripper and they saw text book stripper game happening right in front of them.

The second night the students did even better. Everyone was armed with truth bombs (our new term only taught and explained at bootcamps) ready to be delivered. One of the bottle service girls even bit Daxx on the arm as a way of showing affection.

One of the things that really hit me lately is how sometimes it’s really hard for me to relate to students. My life is so different now and better in so many different ways. But not too long ago I was in the same shoes as these guys. I wanted to improve my dating life and I was looking for a solution. Now every time I help at bootcamps and workshops it hits me in the face how awesome these people are and how badly they want to succeed. It makes me realize again what it is like to be in the shoes of someone who wants to improve their dating life. That makes me motivated to help because I know what it takes to get that success. Then when you see these guys succeed……I almost get an orgasm.

Tomorrow I’ll be flying to SF to help day game expert Jeremy Soul on his workshop. Then the week after that he will stay at my place for a week and we’ll do the LA Day Game workshop too.

Good times and good times ahead.

Another Round of LA Bootcamp Fun is a post from Bonsai - Asian Dating Coach

Related posts:

1. Los Angeles Bootcamp with Future
2. 3 for 1 Training in Los Angeles
3. A Life of a Dating Coach Currently in San Francisco

Bonsai Bootcamp, Posts, Workshop Adventures

Hat tip to Bonsai the Asian Dating Coach for this one:

http://www.buzzfeed.com/expresident/sex-explained-by-pens

Savoy Off-topic, Posts

Sometimes I get emails that really do bring home why we do what we do. Here's one from a bootcamp graduate last fall. I think we've all had those "a-ha" moments where meeting and attracting beautiful women just becomes....easier. And fun.

From: [Deleted]
Date: Wed, 27 Jan 2010 20:23:45 -0500
To: Savoy
Subject: Learning to Smile

Hey Nick,

I want to share a thought with you.

I attended a bootcamp in Sept 09 with Mr M. Last month I got Interview Series Bundle 4, Boundaries and Takeaways, and Sarging Solo.

Between all the the stuff I'm listening to from Interview Series Bundle 4 (like Older Men Younger Women and Turning Things Sexual) while I drive an hour to work and back, I feel like I'm having a revelation. Everything is changing in my belief system.

I realized how powerful this internal change was when I was chatting with 2 separate waitresses I've been gaming. The first girl put me in the friend zone after me not being man enough to ask for her number. I listened to "Older Men Younger Women" where you spoke about the frame of "I'm going to keep hitting on you." That is so empowering. I realized that friend zone is just a frame. I got myself "in state" (which is coming so much more naturally now, it's just me being me, but doing it better) and walked into the place, saw her, grabbed her in a hug, and built attraction all over again. Dominant frame wins.

The other waitress is in the city where I work (Richmond VA, and I don't care that you hate Richmond =)). I thought she was 25. She lights up when she sees me, but tries to hide it. I was joking about taking her to Vegas and I was going for the number when she told me she was 19. Freakin' 19 year olds want me! How the hell did that happen!? In the moment I wasn't able to conceal my disappointment. I doubt we could have a meaningful relationship, though I may consider sex with her. I'm 43, btw, don't let 33 bother you, you are in a great place.

Here's the thing about that. Before the bootcamp I never would have seen myself attracting hot (my friends who see these girls are intimidated by their hotness) young women, but it's happening. My world is changing. My limiting beliefs are falling away.

Philosophically, It's like learning how to smile. Before I knew how to smile my interactions were dull and uninspiring. When I smile a new world opens before my eyes.

Thanks for teaching me how to smile.

Savoy Posts, reviews

This guy is seriously so out to lunch that I can't stop being morbidly fascinated with him. Here's the latest interview about Dmitri the Lover. It's actually a bit of a whitewash, which is weird for someone as "out there" as this guy is.

For background on Dmitri, check out Dmitri the Lover - this is actually real and Phone Game and Not Phone Game. Hey Dmitri, how did you planned trip up to Alaska to seduce Sarah Palin go?

For my birthday, can we put Dmitri and Crazy Lady in a room together? I'd buy tickets to that.

Savoy Dmitri the lover, Posts, crazy lady

Tell everyone you see!  This is the most important medical discovery in the history of mankind!

http://web.archive.org/web/20041126040807/http:/homepage.mac.com/nikkienikks/iblog/C294808266/E910814554/Media/cnn.html

EVERYBODY NEEDS TO KNOW ABOUT THIS!! is a post from Big Business

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Big Business Posts, Uncategorized

I never thought of myself as a health advocate, but this is an issue I can be passionate about. This is pretty important stuff. Please pass on to all women you know. Especially women in Los Angeles. Dr Savoy has the treatment.

http://web.archive.org/web/20041126040807/http:/homepage.mac.com/nikkienikks/iblog/C294808266/E910814554/Media/cnn.html

(Yeah, I thought this was a joke at first too. Apparently not.)

Update: Okay, okay, it is a hoax. But there will always be a place in my heart where that's true. I guess men will have back on the "it's good for your skin" line. Amazing how many men can get spontaneously interested in cosmetic dermatology when the situation arises...

Savoy Posts

I am sitting in the middle of the Pacific Ocean; a nine foot surfboard lies beneath me, bow raised and pointing out to sea as I scan the horizon.

I am alone.

Surfing isn’t about riding waves. It’s about moments like this; being aware, feeling the ocean move beneath you, and waiting for the next big set to roll in from some distant storm in the pacific.

The north shore of Oahu feels like it’s in a different country than Honolulu. From the town of Halewa in the west, a road rolls north along the coast for some sixty miles. On that entire stretch, a single Starbucks is the only reminder that this is still America in the 21^st century.

But that’s all behind me. Now, my attention is on predicting the waves, feeling where they will break, and where I need to be to catch them at the right speed, at the right moment. When the right wave comes, I will lean back, spin my board around and paddle towards the break. If I’m too fast, I’ll fall over the lip and be swamped. Too slow and I’ll never catch the wave. If I’m too far forward, the wave will crash over my head, too far back and it will pass underneath me without moving me, an opportunity wasted.

My feet dangle in the water, kicking slowly to keep me upright, and connecting me with the flows and currents of the ocean. I feel a current pulling me along the beach to the left, the force of the waves pulling me first into them, and then back towards the shore. I note this, and adjust my position accordingly.

Beneath me, a volcanic reef is the reason why I have chosen this place.  The waves roll for thousands of miles, across the ocean, but their power hidden deep beneath the surface of the water. When they reach this place, angle of the reef redirects their energy, forcing it upward, breaking the surface and causing the waves to curl at this exact point.

I have no power over the ocean. I do not even comprehend the forces that created the waves that I ride, or that created the reef below me. I can only sit and wait for these forces beyond my control to come together here, beneath me.

Surfing dispels your illusions of control over things. You have no control over the oceans, no control over the waves. All you have control over is yourself, and the tiny little board beneath you. With that, and an understanding of the forces that surround you, you can ride the waves, and have them carry you effortlessly. If you ignore the forces that surround you, you will be swept away or pulled under.

Kind of like life, I think.

And so I sit on my board, my feet in the ocean, and scan the horizon as I wait for the next big set to roll in from some distant storm in the pacific.

For more information about Tenmagnet, his products and upcoming bootcamps, visit www.LoveSystems.com

Thoughts from the Pacific

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Tenmagnet Advice, Posts, surfing