I see the boys have just put up the stuff for Project Rockstar 2012. I will not be helping on this year’s Rockstar, instead teaching Day Game Workshops, but I have a bit of history with Rockstar. Project Rockstar is a nine-week program by Love Systems. We take six average guys and try to turn [...]
Read More...Cajun just recorded an audio book version of the Gentleman’s Guide to Online Dating. Listen to an excerpt by clicking the link below:
Online Dating Audiobook
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This video is awesome!
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I hear it all of the time… A guy gets the “let’s just be friends,” and even though this girl is not interested in him, he gets hung up on her. In my younger days, a weaker man, I would have loved the perfect answer to this unfortunate problem. And so do a lot of [...]
Read More...The part of the shopping cart on the Love Systems website that calculates and charges shipping on phyiscal products doesn’t seem to be working. Right now the shopping cart has appeared to decide that we ship around the world, express, for free. Since I can’t actually DO anything about this other than submitting a tech [...]
Read More...Hi Guys, I did an hour long interview in December (2011) with a man named Andy Anderson of Social Chemistry, based in Seattle. We discussed some basics of day game, and some of the content that goes into my day game mini seminars. Keep checking for all six parts! Cheers,Nick Part 1 || 2 || 3 || [...]
Read More...Cajun’s Gentleman’s Guide to Online Dating conquers all PUA online game material I’ve read. There seems to be a new tip on profiles, messages or site on each page. I’ve probably learned more new stuff from this book than other products because nobody has covered online game before. WHAT YOU
Read More...Question: How do you live for four days on three dollars when you’re living in a completely empty apartment, and know absolutely nobody? The answer: Online Game. As you may know, Cajun’s online game book is coming out this week, and I can’t recommend it enough. Not just because I contributed a chapter, [...]
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How Online Game Saved My Life (well, kinda)
Read More...Cajun’s Online Dating Course Is Here! It covers every step and sticking point, including: Building your online dating profile – including how to target different types of women (as part of his research, Cajun had female volunteers browse profiles while he watched) (ch. 1) What sites to use based on your goals – and why [...]
Read More...A lot of men think that it’s a lot harder to find and date quality women online than it really is. Of course, that’s one of the major themes of the Gentleman’s Guide to Online Dating (released today). If you haven’t had a chance to get the book now, or you’ll still sifting through all [...]
Read More...A bunch of guys who were at the 2011 PUA SuperConference have been asking me stuff like “What happened to Nick Hoss? Didn’t we vote him the #1 dating coach in the world? Well, where the hell are his programs?” Well, the wait is over. There are a ton of programs we just loaded on [...]
Read More...Cajun’s Gentleman’s Guide to Online Dating conquers all PUA online game material I’ve read. There seems to be a new tip on profiles, messages or site on each page. I’ve probably learned more new stuff from this book than other products because nobody has covered online game before. [...]
Read More...Hi Guys, A few months ago, I did an interview about online dating with a Florida Radio Station. They had me critique the profile of one of their (female) staff. Along the way I gave some online dating tips that guys can use as well. A lot of witty banter – very similar to how [...]
Read More...Position: Intern to social media manager of the Jeremy Soul, Dates Book and Nick Hoss brands. Duties: Successful applicant will work directly under the social media manager, but also will have contact with Nick Hoss. Tasks to include: Writing Editing Research Social Media Management Graphic Design SEO Message Board Posting Audio and Video Editing Compensation: [...]
Read More...Hi Ryan, That’s a pretty common question, and a good one at that. I don’t use Facebook for chatting up random girls I’ve never met. I don’t doubt it could work, and I know guys do it, but I’d rather spend that time on more important things, or at least spend it on improving [...]
Read More...Chicago-based Love Systems instructor Helicase sent this along…from a Chicago newspaper article complaining that there are more single men than single women there. Let me be clear – the newspaper article is complaining. Not Helicase. Helicase has more women than he knows what to do with. I’ll copy and paste the article below (Don’t worry, [...]
Read More...Derek Cajun, winner of Keys to the VIP, was recently on one of America’s top morning shows to share some of his secrets about online dating.
Check it out:
Hi Guys, I did an hour long interview in December (2011) with a man named Andy Anderson of Social Chemistry, based in Seattle. We discussed some basics of day game, and some of the content that goes into my day game mini seminars. Keep checking for all six parts! Cheers,Nick Part 1 || 2 [...]
Read More...So…we’re down to our last dozen or so copies of Inside the Black Box: 11 Essentials. Again. We made 500 during launch, and that clearly wasn’t enough, so we made another 500. That sold too, so we made another 500…which unlike the first two batches did not disappear right away. That one sort of dribbled [...]
Read More...Hi Guys, I’m not even doing this post up all fancy-like, and it will only stay up until the release of Cajun’s online book next week, Jan. 26. The book will be called The Gentleman’s Guide to Online Dating, and here is a link to a sample chapter. Watch next week when I give my [...]
Read More...ignore that previous post – I can’t even remember the name of Derek Cajun’s new book! (In my defense, we went through a million different name options before we picked this one). Anyway, the title should be right this time: The Gent…
Read More...You approach a girl, daylight or nightlife, and she says has a boyfriend. Is she telling the truth? Is she blowing you off? What do you do in this situation? Hi Sgt. Pep, Thanks for the props. I, like you, have heard the “I have a boyfriend [husband]” line many times before, day and night. [...]
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the new book by Derek Cajun now has its own web page, videos, trailers, and advice section.
Check it out here – The Gentleman’s Guide to Online Game. And the book doesn’t even go on sale until next Thursday, January 26th…
Posted in ArticlesAlthough it’s 81°F here in Singapore, back home in New York it’s 20°F. The days are falling from the calendar, and when I return to the USA, New York will be in its worst month, my birthday month, February. The bitch of …
Read More...A couple years ago, I approached Keys to the VIP winner “Derek Cajun” to do a big research / investigation project for us. I wanted him to take the powerful Love Systems approach and see how it adapted to online game….dating sites, facebook, etc. Cajun was definitely the right guy for this. He’s not good-looking [...]
Read More...93% of communication is said to be nonverbal. After reading “The Game” around 4 years ago, I went on a mission reading books and researching for practical ways to improve my body language. I was told to stand tall, keeping my shoulders back and down, chest out, abs tucked in
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Hi Guys, I did an hour long interview in December (2011) with a man named Andy Anderson of Social Chemistry, based in Seattle. We discussed some day game basics of day game, and some of the content that goes into my day game mini seminars. Keep checking for all six parts! Cheers,Nick Part 1 || [...]
Read More...Posted in ArticlesLittle Miracles I’m going to call the articles in this series little miracles because they are tiny changes in my life that have yielded huge returns. These are changes that hugely affect the way I live, and if I can share them …
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Last week, I had a guest post from a close friend of mine, Leonhart. Leonhart is an Asian dude who took up Love Systems a couple of years ago with great success. Click here to learn of his path or to read part 1 of his Asian Guys dating White Girls post. Part 2… A [...]
Read More...Posted in ArticlesThere’s a lot I want to say about this, but I just landed in Singapore last night. The light is fading, the girls’ shorts are very short, and I have an itchy camera finger. The flight here from New York is a long one. You …
Read More...How do I use my money to attract girls? How do I not get used for my wealth? How do I know which women like me and which like my money? “I’m wealthy and it’s getting me dates, but not with the women I want.” Today I talk about the wealth attraction switch, some of [...]
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Today I have a guest post from a man who committed to making immense change in his life. I’ve known Leonhart for a couple of years now and he’s helped multiple Love Systems instructors and on Project Rockstar and become part of my white guy social circle while still remaining true to his roots. Take [...]
Read More...Posted in PickupNo bullshit: Starlight and I wrote a book on how to pick up women in Asia. If you guys haven’t received word, Starlight and I put together a little promotional e-book for people living in and around Asia. There’s some new s…
Read More...adventures, asia, asian women, dating, ebook, Future, Hong Kong, korea, Love Systems, pick-up, Pickup, Posts, seduction, Starlight
Need a graphic designer to do a few high-quality banners ASAP. Got other needs too for a skilled designer. Can live/work anywhere as long as you produce good stuff. Email me (there’s a little mail icon on this blog) with a couple samples. We&…
Read More...Been quoting him a lot on my twitter and here. Here’s another gem — one that doesn’t fit easily into 140 character twitter-land:
Watch your thoughts; they become words. Watch your words; they become actions. Watch your actions; they …
Posted in PickupNo bullshit: Starlight and I wrote a book on how to pick up women in Asia. If you guys haven’t received word, Starlight and I put together a little promotional e-book for people living in and around Asia. There’s some new s…
Read More...adventures, asia, asian women, dating, ebook, Future, Hong Kong, korea, Love Systems, pick-up, Pickup, Posts, seduction, Starlight
Posted in ArticlesA Breakthrough Comfort student e-mailed me the other day to say he had found a really great girl, and he was really excited about it. I started to reply to him, then I started a blog post, then I realized it was universal enough to …
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The biggest thing that held me back before I started practicing Love Systems was limiting beliefs about what I was capable of achieving. I always thought that I was an average looking guy, coming from an average (at best) background, who just wasn’t destined to be one of “those guys” who could be successful. After [...]
Read More...Posted in PickupNo bullshit: Starlight and I wrote a book on how to pick up women in Asia. If you guys haven’t received word, Starlight and I put together a little promotional e-book for people living in and around Asia. There’s some new s…
Read More...adventures, asia, asian women, dating, ebook, Future, Hong Kong, korea, Love Systems, pick-up, Pickup, Posts, seduction, Starlight
Just listening to Pandora again…and I nearly spat out my coffee listening to this ad. I might have a word or two wrong, but I’m pretty sure this is mostly right: “You’ve got him wrapped around your finger. You know you do. So why not show this off? Send him to Simon G’s, Simon G’s [...]
Read More...I just dug up and took time to reread my “black book” during my flight to San Francisco for Nick Hoss’ SuperCamp. It was my pledging journal, packed with brother interviews, themes, feedback, advice and mental notes. I wanted to decipher exactly how the brotherhood was able to effectively change
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Posted in VideoAs a mere mortal I find myself at a loss at how to talk about Jackie Evancho, who I discovered with my parents when I was home for Thanksgiving. Jackie is not even 12, but she has the poise and presence of women who have trained their wh…
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